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I dated a man for approx. 3 1/2 - 4 months. I started to feel suffocated in the relationship in part because I was not entirely ready to settle down with just one person, and most importantly he was...

About a month ago or so, I developed a rash on my upper right arm, and across my chest. It is also in the corner of my right eye, and the inside fold of my upper right ear.

At first I thought...

BetrayalBTCamp, thanks for your advice once again.

My ex-husband, to my knowledge, has done little to work out his own baggage from this painful past. He replaced me with another woman almost...

You are right. If he loved me, he should have made more of an effort to fight to keep his family together. And that's not to excuse my bad behavior at the end of the relationship, because I was...

Thanks Betrayalbtcamp for your advice. It logically makes all the sense in the world. I don't know why I'm having such a hard time moving forward from this. I don't know why I have idealized that...

I have tried to stop mourning, but it never really has gone away.
I do not like feeling this way, believe me. I have read just about every self help book that I could get my hands on, I have...

Chuff, that is good advice, and I appreciate your perspective.

But to answer your question... I'm not sure why I want him back, besides the fact that I love him, I miss our family, I feel bad for...

I never 'physically' caught my ex-husband with another woman, but the writing was on the wall on a few separate occasions throughout the marriage. i.e. he did not come home all night on a couple...

There was unfaithfulness on behalf of both parties.

I have been divorced for two agonizing years. Right after the divorce, I tried to get my ex-husband to make an attempt to reconcile, but he refused. Since then I have remained non-invasive, and I...

Try a pure lemon juice facial. Squeeze the juice from a lemon, rub the juice on your face with a cotton ball, let it sit for approx. 10 min. - it will sting! - rinse the solution off with luke-warm...

Unruly Brunette,

Thanks for your advice.

I have discussed my children's bad behavior with my ex-husband and he INSISTS that he does not have this problem with them. I asked my daughter if they...

I need some serious advice from parents or the like who have had experience dealing with the unruly behavior of children.

I am a single mother of two children, a daughter aged 13, and a son aged...

I don't really know that if you put a dark blonde ash color all over if it would work. You have 3 inches of dark brown roots. The rest of your hair is highly processed and light brown. I'm...

I went from blonde to medium brown using a drugstore or supermarket color. And it turned out really nice. My suggestion 1st and foremost, would be to start using a semi-permanent color. Clairol...

I believe the key is to make sure you're using unrefined Shea Butter. It's a yellow-ish color with a light, nutty smell.
I use only Shea Butter as a body moisturizer and I swear by it. It goes...

Unfortunately, if someone refuses to get back with you, there's not a whole lot you can do about it. If you stay focused on it, it will drive you nuts. Trust me!
Perhaps she just needs some time...

Kraz,

Do not apologize for your bluntness; your advice is much appreciated.
And what you are saying makes perfect sense and somewhere within the "common sense" sector of my soul, I know this is...

ONEGUYINOHIO,
It's good to hear a man's perspective. Probably the best thing for me to do, is take some time for myself and my children, concentrate on our new move, and just focus on our life,...

450donn - appreciate your advice and all the other's advice as well.
I went through counseling and I apparently did not reach that end.
I know I have to come to grips with the end of this...

The common sense side of me would definitely have to agree that going 120 days without men would be ideal!

As far as a counselor, I suggested this a long time ago but he didn't seem too...

I'll try to make a long story short...
I was divorced approx. 15 months. Ago from a man whom I was married to for nearly twelve years. We have two children together.
The marriage ended for...

I recently dyed my hair what I thought was a medium brown. Well, needless to say, it turned very dark brown with black ends. I am trying to grow my hair out so the last thing I wanted to do was...

You can't enlarge your breasts by eating a certain type of food. Weight gain would probably increase the size somewhat and even that's not a guarantee. Short of a breast augmentation, I think there...

You have not broke this man's heart or devastated him. He's manipulating you. He likes to be in control of a situation, and he likes controlling you, so therefore he will say anything to regain...

About every 2-3 months. I start having serious doubts about the break-up of my marriage. I start to doubt my current relationship, I start believing that I should allow myself to be open for a...

Thanks, BlueRose. I feel very alone in this situation. I was sure there were other people out there that may have experienced something similar in their past.
I have been trying to just relax and...

I think people can sometimes "de-sensitize" themselves with porn.
I always try to live by the philosophy, To Each Their Own, but if something makes you uncomfortable, you should not participate. ...

My situation is very complicated (at least in my own eyes). I'll try and explain my situation to the best of my ability.
1st of all, 2006 was literally the worst year of my life. My son was...

Sounds like maybe psoriasis.
My advice initially of course would be to see a doctor and make sure it's not something fungal.
If it is psoriasis, try pure Shea Butter to moisturize the area. It's...

Thanks Cosmogirl09 & PrettyLady for your advice!
I will try the 4NN with 20 volume this weekend!

I have had the same problem with extremely oily, acne-prone skin my entire life.
I use pure jojoba oil mixed with aloe vera gel. Just use 2 drops of the jojoba oil mixed in your palm with a...

I need advice on re-touching new hair growth. I'll explain my situation 1st...
Approx. 2 months. Ago I dyed my hair with Clairol Professional Premium haircolor 3NN (which was supposed to be a...