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  1. In light of the Batman shootings...

    How will America/Canada/Insert-Your-Country-Here return to the time of "childhood innocence"? I wrote a blog about it, but I feel like I just scratched the surface.

    Fighting the Darkness: In...
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    Having lived there for two years and just...

    Having lived there for two years and just completed my second short-term trip, I've got a pretty good idea! :)

    Your USD will get you just over 6 RMB per $1. Food depends. If you want to eat...
  3. International Travel Before Shoulder Surgery

    I will be traveling to China in a few weeks and need some help. After a car accident in early January, my rotator cuff has been torn and my deltoid insertion point has constant, continual swelling....
  4. This one helped me the most when I lost my Dad to...

    This one helped me the most when I lost my Dad to cancer:

    Cancer is so limited...
    It cannot cripple love.
    It cannot shatter hope.
    It cannot corrode faith.
    It cannot eat away peace.
    It...
  5. Ok, one post :) Hubby is good. We're doing...

    Ok, one post :)

    Hubby is good. We're doing amazingly well. Quite busy these days with jobs, theatre stuff, and preparing to spend a month in China (yes, CHINA!), but life is good. No complaints...
  6. Hello, hello! So, can't stay and chat...

    Hello, hello!

    So, can't stay and chat tonight, but just wanted to pop my head in and say HEY! :)

    Love you all! Can't wait to catch up! It's been waaaaay too long!

    Chicky out... for the...
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    You should not be in a relationship with someone...

    You should not be in a relationship with someone that you do not trust. Period.

    There's no other way to spin this. You don't trust him. You shouldn't be with him.

    You started the post saying...
  8. After reading all the responses and your...

    After reading all the responses and your responses to the responses (that was a fun sentence, wasn't it?), I am come to the question of "Why don't you think you're important enough to value a...
  9. Yikes... I don't think that it is appropriate for...

    Yikes... I don't think that it is appropriate for your boyfriend to take another girl (even if she is just a friend) on a European vacation, period. If anyone, he should have taken you!

    If it was...
  10. Do you know what kind of curriculum it was? This...

    Do you know what kind of curriculum it was? This could possibly help narrow the field...

    Were your textbooks in the form of paper pamphlets (ACE) or hardcover books? If they were the paper...
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    If I was in her shoes and the man that I loved...

    If I was in her shoes and the man that I loved and trusted went to visit a girl friend behind my back, that would totally break my trust and yes, make me break up with him. I'm sorry, but you just...
  12. Nope. It's time. Sometimes you just have to let...

    Nope. It's time. Sometimes you just have to let your friends deal with the consequences of their own actions and decisions. You've tried your hardest to help her on numerous occasions. She has...
  13. Comment on mmresd's post

    Urgh... I think I hit "No" by mistake... I meant YES! Not every man is like the OP assumes. I found a wonderful, trustworthy man and he found a faithful wife in me!
  14. I'm truly sorry that you cannot trust people....

    I'm truly sorry that you cannot trust people. Yes, I am married. No, I do not believe he will cheat on me. I know I won't cheat on him. When we said our vows before God, family, and friends, we both...
  15. You ask "what do I do?"... you move on. She is...

    You ask "what do I do?"... you move on. She is playing a game with your heart and shouldn't be allowed to control your emotions like that.

    She's a player. She told you that you'd get back...
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    Yikes... how old are the two of you? This is...

    Yikes... how old are the two of you?

    This is crazy drama. Like Alty said, you don't need this drama. Get off the roller coaster, man. Yes it is going to hurt, yes it is going to be hard, but you...
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    Yes, people can change. Yes, they can become a...

    Yes, people can change. Yes, they can become a "better version" of themselves. Yes, they can get out of the "Maury Povich Lifestyle" they have accrued. But it is rare.

    It sounds like this guy...
  18. I honestly don't think anyone on this site will...

    I honestly don't think anyone on this site will give you tips on how to get the married man that you're having an affair with to contact you more. We don't do that here. We tend to value marriage...
  19. Ok, I have to play the other side here. ...

    Ok, I have to play the other side here.

    Thousands upon thousands of military couples work it out on a daily basis around the world. Thank God for men and women that are willing to give up house...
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    This is the paragraph that really irks me: ...

    This is the paragraph that really irks me:

    "Coming around the time we have to break things off??" If its wrong, if you know that it's wrong, WHY continue to an end date? Doesn't the fact that you...
  21. Honestly, in my opinion, you need to keep your...

    Honestly, in my opinion, you need to keep your plans to have an awesome day out on Saturday, no matter what.

    Today's dating world has changed so drastically--it's not always the case where you...
  22. Comment on mmresd's post

    You DO know that hundreds of thousands of successful marriages/relationships are started online, don't you? Today's world is very different from yesterday's--online is the "new dating frontier." It's...
  23. Well... I guess you could contact her and find...

    Well... I guess you could contact her and find out if she is open to pursuing something with you again, but normally, when you break up with someone you have a reason. What happened the first time...
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    I'm an American, descended from Mayflower...

    I'm an American, descended from Mayflower passengers, American Revolution soldiers, Civil War soldiers, and military men. I grew up where guns were commonplace.

    I've also gone through an abusive...
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    It sounds like you had a very intense...

    It sounds like you had a very intense relationship and were truly in love with your ex. But there was/is a reason why he IS your ex. He became unreasonable and did not treat you right. There is NO...
  26. I'm sorry, guy, but she is keeping you as her...

    I'm sorry, guy, but she is keeping you as her back up plan. She is thinking that no matter what, you'll be there. You're her second best.

    You're good enough to be someone's first and last choice....
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    Always listen to your red flags. Yes, this is...

    Always listen to your red flags.

    Yes, this is dangerous behavior. If he is exhibiting this level of dangerous behavior after one month of dating, imagine what he could (will) do after a year or...
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    Thank you, all. I have a new perspective on this...

    Thank you, all. I have a new perspective on this situation!

    If you hadn't guessed, life to me is rosy glasses, I don't think that way - but I'm so thankful for the reality check I receive when I...
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    "May we never look at the burning horizon and...

    "May we never look at the burning horizon and forget that it travels on into the breaking dawn; that just beyond its reach is a land waking up to conquer the new day. In the midst of the night...
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    Lol! Well, thank you, adviceishere. I guess I...

    Lol! Well, thank you, adviceishere. I guess I never thought of it that way.

    I've never been jealous in a relationship. Ever. I guess it's just a weird adjusting period, maybe?

    Thanks for your...
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    Husband's boss is his ex...

    Ok, guys... here's my situation.

    We got married last year (yay, us!) and have a perfect marriage (in that it is imperfect, messy, full of love, sweet, ups and downs, best friendship, etc. etc.)....
  32. It is a song found in the book "Tales from the...

    It is a song found in the book "Tales from the 'Phantasus,' etc
    By Johann Ludwig Tieck (Page 7, "The Friends")

    http://www.amazon.com/Tales-phantasus-Johann-Ludwig-Tieck/dp/0217565611
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    Italian Job? The new version had three...

    Italian Job? The new version had three Mini-Coopers... Check it out.

    The Italian Job (2003) - IMDb
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    Legal? With parental consent. Smart? Wait...

    Legal? With parental consent.

    Smart? Wait three years, then it would be smarter.

    You're 15. Please don't get married yet. You have so much of life yet to experience. Believe me. I'm 31 and...
  35. First of all, quit Facebook. If it bothers you,...

    First of all, quit Facebook. If it bothers you, cancel your account. Block him, don't look at his site. If he is being a jerk and talking about you on a public site (and he probably is leaving it...
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    A leap of faith is just that... a leap into the...

    A leap of faith is just that... a leap into the nothingness of what could be. It may turn out to your favor, it may not.

    One thing that I have learned... family and friends understand you. Your...
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    Ok, maybe I'm just looking at this through rosy...

    Ok, maybe I'm just looking at this through rosy glasses, but it sounds like this guy liked you and got tired of you turning him down to hang out. He moved on.

    He started back up "talking sweet"...
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    It sounds like Inkheart, but it is with a father...

    It sounds like Inkheart, but it is with a father and his daughter.

    INKHEART - Official Movie Website
  39. Hi, Delow!! :) Nice to see you :) It's not...

    Hi, Delow!! :) Nice to see you :)

    It's not the completely same circumstance, but my husband's boss is his ex. I still struggle with their workplace relationship (and I know that that is all it...
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    Poor thing. Ask a simple, sincere question and...

    Poor thing. Ask a simple, sincere question and end up with a debate. Not what you really wanted to hear, was it? For what it's worth... these debates help all of us become stronger in what we...
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    Oh, sweetheart. You need your Mom's help and...

    Oh, sweetheart. You need your Mom's help and support through this. With her being a teen Mom herself, she will know what you're feeling and will be able to help you through this.

    Even if you are...
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    I just got married and had to figure this out! ...

    I just got married and had to figure this out!

    1. Sign in
    2. Go to the Account drop down menu on the upper right corner
    3. Account Settings
    4. Click the little blue "change" button to the...
  43. No problem, Bud. Honestly, if you can learn that...

    No problem, Bud. Honestly, if you can learn that one rule of dating, it will save you a LOT of heartache and problems.

    And it will help you find that perfect one. :) Good luck.
  44. Nope. She has a boyfriend. She likes him. If she...

    Nope. She has a boyfriend. She likes him. If she didn't, she'd not be with him.
  45. One of my personal Dating Commandments is: If...

    One of my personal Dating Commandments is:

    If a boy/girl/man/woman is in a relationship/dating/engaged/married/or otherwise IN a relationship with someone, they are off limits. Period.

    Don't...
  46. Why does the fact that she's a christian girl...

    Why does the fact that she's a christian girl have anything to do with it?

    Are you a different religion?

    I have to tell you... relationships have ups and downs as it is. When you come from...
  47. Ok, I do understand that you have been burned by...

    Ok, I do understand that you have been burned by the boyfriend before. He admitted that he was spending time on msn and you broke up.

    At the point when the two of you decided to get back together...
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    Have you talked to him about this? Not just "I...

    Have you talked to him about this? Not just "I don't want you to go," but have you truly been honest with him about why you are scared for him to go?

    You have a past. You've been burned. You're...
  49. Your boyfriend broke up with you, you decided to...

    Your boyfriend broke up with you, you decided to apply NC because (I'm assuming) you were hurt due to the break up. Have you forgotten all of that? Have you forgotten that he broke up with you? He...
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    I just now saw this question and posts... and...

    I just now saw this question and posts... and once again, I'm so thankful for this community. Look at the amazing steps you've made at taking your power back and starting your life again. You go,...
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