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    Hahahaha "nutys-bozo" Tal is right. We're all...

    Hahahaha "nutys-bozo"

    Tal is right. We're all on this site for the same reason. Just imagine how many more people are going through this.

    The one thing you can't do is FORCE yourself to get...
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    Nothing like this is ever easy. As time goes on...

    Nothing like this is ever easy. As time goes on it gets easier, and then we all have setbacks like this when an ex tries to make contact, or you just run into them. Sometimes for a moment it can feel...
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    I think everything has been said. If you really...

    I think everything has been said. If you really wanted to be with someone why ask for a "break" or go off and party with other people while your boyfriend is at home being miserable. Its hard to see...
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    This is the way you should go through life; not...

    This is the way you should go through life; not second guessing or regretting anything and just going for it, being relentless in life. Well said HC.
  5. My advice to you is to just let go, as hard as...

    My advice to you is to just let go, as hard as that will be. Like Tal said, for me lying is adealbreaker. It almost seems to me by what you've written that she's the type that can't be alone and...
  6. I just really don't get how people can sit there...

    I just really don't get how people can sit there and think "that person has made a mistake".

    It is THEIR life to do what they want. In life you don't always get what you want; its called...
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    HC, I hope there are Home Alone quotes in that...

    HC, I hope there are Home Alone quotes in that link.

    And if not for good measure

    "I'm not afraid anymore!"
  8. Question: My girlfriend

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    "she doesnt love me anymore, which i find hard to...

    "she doesnt love me anymore, which i find hard to believe. how and what can i do to get my girl back ? cause i know we really love each other."


    Chances are if she told you she doesn't, and she...
  9. Question: What If.

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    Do hippies even drink coffee? I guess that's...

    Do hippies even drink coffee? I guess that's something I should know. I guess I should lose the suit and tie job too. This is a great life changing experience. I'm ranting a lot today. Yikes.
  10. Question: What If.

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    Tree Huggery, that hurts HC Although now that...

    Tree Huggery, that hurts HC

    Although now that I think about it, I went to a hippie college, I'm obsessed with hippie tree hugging bands, and just graduated with a degree in philosophy. Thanks for...
  11. Question: What If.

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    Do you really want to talk with her or you just...

    Do you really want to talk with her or you just want someone to talk to. Sometimes its not necessarily the person we miss, its just the situation.

    AH

    I think that may be why "love is so dumb"...
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    First mistake. It sounds like you're feeling...

    First mistake.

    It sounds like you're feeling sorry for yourself.

    We all make that mistake of being that person who just sits around moping and thinking about if they know how much they hurt...
  13. Question: What If.

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    Great quote. I think there are a lot of people...

    Great quote. I think there are a lot of people who would love for that question to be answered.
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    And by not contacting her, it is hitting her hard...

    And by not contacting her, it is hitting her hard and confusing her and eventually it will hit her and then it will be all up to me about where to go from there. Which I will not lie, would be a...
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    Hear comes my evil head to rear itself again. ...

    Hear comes my evil head to rear itself again.

    But Rome you shouldn't be thinking at all that she will actually try and speak to you again. You're setting yourself up if you keep thinking like...
  16. Question: What If.

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    who cares why she does what she does, it makes...

    who cares why she does what she does, it makes her look pathetic and wierd, not you

    I could not have summed the situation up any better. Touché.
  17. Question: What If.

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    I know how you feel. After my breakup even though...

    I know how you feel. After my breakup even though I wasn't the one who needed "space" or time to be single, I was constantly being checked up on through Facebook and tahts fine, but it got to the...
  18. Question: What If.

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    And rome its good that you're telling all of this...

    And rome its good that you're telling all of this to us. You never know what could get around to her if you told even friends. This is a great place to vent and chances are we've all been in the same...
  19. Question: What If.

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    Immediately after I posted that I thought oh no I...

    Immediately after I posted that I thought oh no I said girls and not most girls or even some girls.

    I was just saying that I know plenty of not crazy girls who tend to uhm check up on, or if you...
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    I know for me I had to go crazy before I got...

    I know for me I had to go crazy before I got better. In between I was fine then kind of crazy, fine then kind of crazy, and then I just kind of lost it for a little bit there and broke down mentally....
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    Hahahaha I was waiting for that historian

    Hahahaha I was waiting for that historian
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    I don't really know if that means anything. A LOT...

    I don't really know if that means anything. A LOT of girls stalk not just ex's but people on those kind of sites. I know plenty of girls who stalk their exes on myspace and Facebook, and it doesn't...
  23. Question: What If.

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    Yeaaaa boieieieieieie

    Yeaaaa boieieieieieie
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    You guys could have just told me I was being a...

    You guys could have just told me I was being a moron haha. I was up all night being all giddy because I'm going to see the foo fighters tonight. And now I'm pounding cups of coffee struggling to find...
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    I'm not really sure how I feel about all of this...

    I'm not really sure how I feel about all of this "being on control" stuff.

    I mean isn't the point of NC to get yourself better and put yourself first?

    It almost seems like "being in control" or...
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    Yea it really depends on why you want to send...

    Yea it really depends on why you want to send this.

    Even if you have genuine intentions of just ending on good terms, it still probably isn't a good idea.

    My advice to you is to strap...
  27. Its not going to be easy to hear, but if you read...

    Its not going to be easy to hear, but if you read 99.9% of these posts about girlfriends needing space, about 3% of those girls come back. She's probably been thinking about this for a while. I know...
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    I have this fear in me that I wont meet anyone...

    I have this fear in me that I wont meet anyone that I will love like I loved her.

    And before her you probably never thought that you would meet a nice girl. When we all say the same things about...
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    Yea I'm pretty sure half of my salary goes to...

    Yea I'm pretty sure half of my salary goes to time spent on this website, yikes.
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    I feel like without this website there would be a...

    I feel like without this website there would be a lot of miserable co-workers out there who were sick and tired of hearing people like us venting and talking about this so much. On that note, thank...
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    I know exactly what you're going through. I'm...

    I know exactly what you're going through. I'm still having those days, even after I thought those days had ended. Just when I thought I was good like you said it just hit me like a ton of bricks. But...
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    If you can't stay single for long, yes that means...

    If you can't stay single for long, yes that means you're dependent. And this isn't good for yourself, or for your partners in relationships. How can really learn to love someone if you you can't love...
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    How would you know if being single is fun when...

    How would you know if being single is fun when you've been in relationships for the last 5 years?
  34. Question: Met with ex

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    Yea you're best option right now is to just close...

    Yea you're best option right now is to just close the door on this relationship and look forward in life. Like hurting just said, if after 4 months she doesn't know what in the world is going ot...
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    HistorianChick has a lot of thoughtful,...

    HistorianChick has a lot of thoughtful, purposeful insight into this. Listen to her and I think you'll learn your way soon enough.
  36. "I gave all my trust and love to this person. She...

    "I gave all my trust and love to this person. She made me feel like never before, the only one who can make me feel all those feeling and make me dream again and again about her. She gave me the best...
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    Its not wrong, but yea it will suck for Todd. I...

    Its not wrong, but yea it will suck for Todd. I don't think you should make any effort to tell him. If he asks then you should probably just tell him the truth. He might even think that you broke up...
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    It really all depends on how you feel. If you...

    It really all depends on how you feel. If you think you're completely over the situation, and you feel that you care for her enough to let her know how you're doing and such, then go for it.

    But...
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    I would have to agree with Eura. He contacts you...

    I would have to agree with Eura. He contacts you out of the blue after 8 years of marriage and you're ready to split just like that. It really is just sad.
  40. Like everybody has been saying, it's really hard...

    Like everybody has been saying, it's really hard at first but there willl come a time when believe it or not you're over all of this. The time will come when you are happy again, whether it be in...
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    I was in your spot, and I played the ignorant...

    I was in your spot, and I played the ignorant idiot for over 2 years with her. Trust me from experience, get out now.
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    You know lately after I'll have one of those...

    You know lately after I'll have one of those episodes where you want to text your Ex or you want to write them a letter or some crap immediately afterwards I'll just think about how much of a waste...
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    No contact clap clap clap clap clap No contact...

    No contact clap clap clap clap clap
    No contact clap clap clap clap clap

    Does anybody else want to chant with me? No? Ok i'll keep going then

    No contact clap clap clap clap clap
    No contact...
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    Don't feel bad about "snooping". I've been apart...

    Don't feel bad about "snooping". I've been apart from my ex for almost 2 months and every now and then I still have those urges. And yea it doesn't feel great when you see stuff. But I had the exact...
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    Never say you've given up on something like that....

    Never say you've given up on something like that. And you're right if it happens then it happens. But in the meantime don't think of yourself as this guy who's never going to meet another girl. If...
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    Oh and any more home alone quotes in this thread...

    Oh and any more home alone quotes in this thread are more than welcome. I prefer:

    AHEM

    "why the hell are your shoes off?"

    "why the hell are you dressed like a chicken"

    Think about these...
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    Dude you really shouldn't be afraid of those...

    Dude you really shouldn't be afraid of those kinds of things. Whenever you think about that stuff think about how many couples end up divorced? I'm just saying you need to focus on your life, and...
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    Hey man, just wanted to say don't feel alone. I...

    Hey man, just wanted to say don't feel alone. I was with my girl for three years and it was the same thing. I lost all of my female friends I had while I was in college because she was so insecure, I...
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    About a month ago I asked the same question...

    About a month ago I asked the same question across like 6 different websites, because I wanted to believe to. Do you really even want someone who needs to "realize" they love you. And if she feels...
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    You can't be a best friend after she broke up...

    You can't be a best friend after she broke up with you. How are you going to feel when she starts dating or gets into a relationship. Its going to destroy you, and we know she says she doesn't want...
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