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Hello,
It's been a very long time since I posted on here. To make a long story short me and my ex-girlfriend started talking again back in May and we're supposedly back together. However, I...

Thanks! It certainly does not feel like its been a year. I'm sure my ex does not care nor is ruminating about this like I have. Today I must have spent a good 20 minutes going over the events between...

I wish,
Totally agree that I have some healing to do despite it being nearly a year of No Contact. In fact, I still have quite a bit of work to do. What I really can't get past is that me and...

I wish,
About a year ago(in May, 2008), I asked her point blank(via a text) if she wanted to talk and work things out. She just ignored it and sent a really pointless and retarded text message...

Hey!
Really appreciate the answers to my post. It turns out that stuff was not my ex-girlfriend's gifts but rather somebody being evicted from their condo. When I returned home from work there...

Hey Liz28,
Agree 100% that getting rid of my stuff is a way for my ex to find closure. I got rid of a lot of the stuff my ex gave me but they went straight to the dumpster-I would have burnt...

Hey!
As I was leaving for work today, I noticed something a bit peculiar. Sitting next to my car one parking space over in my condo's parking lot was a white trash bag full of God knows what....

Kp2171,
If I was married and my wife's ex kept calling her, I'd be pretty ticked off. My ex has been married once before and that only lasted several weeks. Still, the ex-husband continued to...

Kp2171,
Just thinking about how childish and immature it was of her to prank call has really helped me cool off. At first, I was madder than a hornet-she had no respect for me or my privacy...

MsMewiththat,
Not a day has gone by since receiving that unblocked call from my ex where I have not thought about what she could have wanted. The prank call, though, pretty much told me that...

HistorianChick,
It has been a tough road but at least now I know that I'll be all right without her. There was a time when I agonized over life without her but now I know life goes on and I've...

Romefalls 19,
Hey! Thanks for the encouragement! I feel a lot better now and have cooled off significantly. The more I think about it, the more it looks like she was the one duped in the end...

Yaode3zy,
Hey! I really appreciated your response to my post! While I do agree that she is not serious about getting back together, calling her and seeing what she wanted is out of the...

SphinxRiddle,
I can't help but wonder what her motives were unless she just forgot to block her number. The breakup was pretty smooth-in fact, I think I was one of the nicest breakups she ever...

Talaniman,
Hey! Just read your reply. I'm trying to hang in there but right now I am so aggravated because I'm pretty sure my ex pranked me the other night by blocking her number and calling. I...

friend4u178,
Hey! Thank you for the reply. My ex has also sent text messages which were to me nothing but foolishness and I have always ignored them Whoever it was that called the other night...

Hey,
Several days I posted about how my ex-girlfriend called me back on February 21 and did not block her number. It was almost as if she wanted me to pick up. Well, a few nights ago(March 1) I...

_Someone_
Your post struck a few familiar chords with me. It was about this time last year that I toughed it out and apologized to her for whatever I did to push her away. In doing so I sent...

Kaitou,
I definitely had to rant. There was no excuse for the way she left after all we went through together in over 11 years. I had no intention of dumping her-I was just busy with my job and...

Kaitou,
I'm definitely sticking to No Contact even though I've had the urge ever since she called to text her a simple, "I noticed you called the other day. What did you want?" Then again, if I...

Hello,
Well, my ex-girlfriend ACTUALLY called last Saturday at about 4:00 P.M.and she did not block her number as on previous attempts. I had the opportunity to answer and when I recognized...

Hello,
Lately my ex-girlfriend whom I have known for over 10 years has been contacting me-either by leaving lame text messages or "No Number" calls. I've not spoken to her since May and that...

Hey,
I was wondering if this situation has happened to anybody else. Me and my ex have been No Contact for nearly 6 months now. She has(or at least I believe) tried to contact me on the phone...

Hey!
DON'T DO IT! I cannot reiterate this enough. I agree with the previous people who have posted-you are just opening up a can of worms. You will look stronger by just leaving her alone. Take...

Dreaming is a natural process where our brain "sorts" itself out while we sleep. A breakup can be quite a shock to the system and dreaming about your ex is a given as your subconscious tries to make...

Hey Everybody!
Thank you for the replies. I know the question was a bit silly but thank you for the input. That's the thing that has been grating on me, I keep wondering if it was her. I have...

Hey!
I was just wondering what you all thought of this. Last night, my phone rang about 10:00 and the number was withheld on my cell's caller ID. I answered with, "Hello?" The person(presumably...

4answers,
Hey, I know the feeling and it sucks. I had to go through the same thing over 8 years ago when I found out that the love of my life was getting married and it was through the...

Bigbird213,
Hey! Thanks... I can concur with what you said. I too have had instances where I'll worry and obsess over something happening and when it did, I didn't go to pieces and was able to...

Hey!
This is probably a stupid question but I'll spit it out. Right now, I am on my 121st day of NC although my ex has contacted me three times within that time frame. One contact was via a...

It's been 119 days for me-although my ex-girlfriend sent me one stupid, meaningless text back on June 4(which I ignored) and attempted to call on August 24, leaving a retarded message on my voice...

Ithappenstoall, Romefalls 19, and talaniman-
Hey! Thanks for the input. I'm going straight ahead with No Contact and not looking back. The breakup with my ex was not hostile in any way-she just...

ChihuahuaMomma,
Hey! Cute name... thanks for the reply though. Yeah, I was kind of wondering the same thing. I think about my ex everyday and I still obsess over whether I did enough to save...

Hey Everybody,
I've posted my story on here with my ex earlier this year so for brevity's sake I won't go into it again. Basically, my ex last texted me on June 4 of this year in which she just...

Hey Ash123,
It's been about 64 days since I heard from the ex-telling me what I was supposedly getting for my birthday and 91 days since I said anything to her(via text). She hasn't seen me in...

Hey!
It's been 91 days for me now-that is 91 days since I last said ANYTHING to my ex and that was via a text message. I simply asked, "What do you want?" but she did not answer. That text was...

Hey deesnider,
I'm almost in the same predicament as you-however, I haven't asked for the engagement ring back. My ex is involved with somebody else now but she continues to spite me every now...

kp2171,
I think I was at fault for not calling her more and not taking her out more during the time I had when I was off from work. I work at night, so you can imagine that I am tired during...

shellyjo68,
I'm not ticked off by your post, at least you don't pull any punches. As far as that ring goes, what has been done has been done. I sent it back in March, and when she took a month...

Hey!
She texted me AGAIN today-same bullcrap. Either she does not have any respect for what I said and derives a cheap laugh from the whole thing or there is trouble in paradise. The message...

shellyjo68,
I do respect the relationship she has(if there is one). This has not been confirmed by her other than her telling me awhile back that she liked somebody but was not happy(with the...

kp2171,
I put the info in the message about my father because I thought it would serve one of two purposes:1)the stupid, pointless messages will stop coming if she knows that and if she has any...

Fr_Chuck and oneguyinohio,
Thanks for the replies! I'm going to extra cautious about this. I've never looked at this before but I'm pretty open minded. My main concerns are about my career and...

Hey,
I've been entertaining the idea of getting a psychic reading with a local "Psychic Advisor." At this point in my life, I feel lost and have a lot of questions about where my life is...

Hey,
Just a couple of thoughts. Day 5 has passed since my last message to her and I still feel like an idiot although the sting subsides with each passing day. I still wonder if I did the right...

kp2171,
I feel so retarded right now for breaking NC in the first place. I felt way better when I was ignoring her than I do now. The more I think about it, the angrier I get. I'm mainly pissed...

Hey,
Well Day 1 has passed since I texted her. I failed to mention several posts ago(where I said that she asked what was wrong with my dad) that not only did I tell her what was wrong-I point...

kp2171,
I totally agree with your post. When I sent her that message yesterday, it was gut wrenching because I felt as if I was weak and giving in after nearly 2 months of NC. I sort of thought...

confusionmax,
Thanks for the reply! I have a feeling the messages will continue with no heed to what I asked her-she's like that. In the ten years that I've known her, we have been on and off....

Hey,
Well, hopefully I've finally put an end to the text message issue. I sent her a LONG message today telling her how I honestly felt and not to contact me anymore unless she wants to discuss...