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I've decided to give it a bit more time and access the situation... if she keeps on lying I will move on... I know it sounds kind of blind but I'm pretty certain she's not physical with anyone else,...

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I've been seeing a girl for just over three months, we met about six months ago and we kind of friendly for a while and then, just before I had to leave town, managed to get our acts together...

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Thanks for the advice... I guess I probably made some things less than clear in my question... I've not spent the last 8 months obsessing over this girl. In that time I've had a few short...

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I guess I'm writing this as I seem to be slowly driving myself nuts and really don't want to talk to my friends about it (as they all out up with a good three months of my misery when my ex...

Cheers talinman, no the joke really wasn't that bad... I've not been calling at all (or being overly inquestive), its more that because we live apart when we see each other its quite intense and for...

I'm definitley backing off but not sure if I'm concerned for no good reason. She's coming over to my country for a few days in two weeks time and we were chatting about that today and she seemed...

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I've been in a bit of a quandry about what to do with a new relationship I'm in and a sense that the girl is not as attracted to me as she was a few weeks back and thought maybe I'd look...

Bang on the money again man, you have my situation totally sussed!

Thing is for large parts of the relationship (i.e. for 1 and a half yrs before she dumped me) I knew I had her totally and...

Very eloquently put I must say, definitely a lot of truth in it but I have one question, do people out there think the situation is different when the breakee is at fault for the break up of the...

I think its really important and brave that you are asking these questions but to be honest having read this thread I really think you should seek professional psychological help to lok at the...

Thanks for that chery (and the level headed comment... I definitely think through this process I have learnt a lot about my own capacities)

As an aside a friend was talking with me last night...

I guess yr right. The other factor is location. I'm now living in the same town as her but my reasons for being here, if I'm totally honest, still involve getting back with her. I know I should move...

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The survival guide is really great advice, as is the comment about always blaming yourself. I think (kinda) I managed to get to somewhere between stage five and six...

I have...

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I've been looking at q and a's on this site and it seems like lots of you guys have got good ideas so I thought I'd tell a bit about my situation and maybe you can help...

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