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I've been working in a small firm for less than half a year. There are only 6 employees here, including me. Some of them are on part time basis.

Given the few of us here, there is no strict...

I would like to know whether a person could move on if he/she had been in a long-term relationship (im talking about 10 years or so) and had broken off with his/her gf/bf BUT the two are involved in...

I know how it feels to love someone but that someone is in a relationship with another person, worse still, if the other person is your friend.

You wish you could take action, or rather she would...

Thanks templelane for your long answer. I know where you are coming from as I've read much about creating our own fate and luck is within our own hands.

It is very true that I am not unlucky in...

I've been battling with this issue for my life. I always strive to get what I want in life and try to achieve the best I can. As a result, I am outstanding in numerous areas of my life.

However,...

Being an accountant and majoring in finance, I totally agree with your predictions about the future changes in the money and capital markets. That is probably why I am so concern while my partner is...

Why not just test the waters before u come clean with her?
Maybe u can ask her to shop with u because u want to buy something for your best friend. Then when u are at a mall, casually ask whether...

Well... dont know whether to say you are smart or stupid.

How could you let a man play with your body as if it belongs to him? How could you believe it when he says he loves u? Have you not hear...

He is your fiancé and he can't leave without u?
His mother suffers from bipolar and so the son shares the mental disorder as well?
His family can't help you because you are too far away?

Seems...

He is willing to bear the burden of debt for the children's education. But I am not sure whether he knows how much exactly, or how "burdensome" it really would be to raise a child. I have tried to...

Before I started dating my current 3-year boyfriend, he acted the way you said your guy did. He would treat me very nice and acted as if I am his girlfriend already. He buys me things, always come...

Thanks for your long advice. I like reading long advice as I give some lengthy ones myself.

About the children's education funding method, we've agree to bear almost 90% of it. It is only if we...

Of course I would want to have kids. In fact, I think so much of them that I know a job and a stable source of income must be available before I bring any new life to earth. I must be a responsible...

Hey Chattede,

One thing u need to stop saying is "I could not help feeling ..."

Although this might sound harsh, u are a human. Not an animal. U cannot control how your heart feels, but u have...

U NEED TO HEAL YOURSELF BEFORE U START TO LOVE AGAIN.

When that man dumped u, u already had a major problem. First you loved him so much that you became distant with your family. Then when he said...

If I am back from a long trip abroad, the first thing that appeals to me would be my favourite food that is only available in the local market.

Be it her favourite doughnut, favourite milkshake,...

A) Looking at porn and shares it with u? --> NOT cheating
B) Looking at porn and denies the fact? --> CHEATING!
C) Looking at porn + looking for other gals --> CHEATING!
D) Looking at porn +...

Hey PinkyPoshe04, u need to break it off for YOURSELF. Not to test whether he loves you or not. If u do that, he will once again be toying with your feelings. If he calls back later, which you...

He has health insurance and some other unit trust funds. But they are in very small amounts and he invested due to convenience as his mother was investing at that time and asked if he wanted to do...

As what LearningAsIGo mentioned, it is because we can't reach an agreement as to how to finance the children in future, that is why I am concerned that a marriage is not a good thing between us....

U need to exert your authority sometimes. Why did you agree to not talk on the phone with males at the first place? If you agreed to it, he should do likewise. No calls to and from females!

If he...

Haha... Yeah, what is it with the left ring or right ring finger? Many people seems to have different opinions about that. I believe that a ring on either ring finger could mean a person is taken....

Good thing for u. Your contract is temporary. So even if u screwed up by telling him your feelings, u don't have to stick by that same job and office for the next year or so.

Another reason a...

What if u want to wear a ring on your fourth finger but u don't want others to think u are taken? Will others think you are not following marriage tradition? If so, how can wearing a ring on the...

YOU NEED TO RUN!!

Head for the exit now before it is too late. A man who is jealous will likely remain so for the rest of his life. Unless he acknowledges the fact that he is very jealous and...

From what u posted, I can't be sure what u really want out of this relationship/friendship. Do u want the connection u are having with him now to bud into a real relationship? Or do u want to be just...

Please share your thoughts on this:

Should a woman who is not married, not engaged, not in a relationship, wear a ring on her fourth finger (ring finger)?

Women I know had said that they wear...

Loving two men at the same time? We are all capable of that!

But to be frank, loving someone is not just having that fuzzy warm feeling. It includes a lot of other things like tolerance,...

Are u in LOVE or in LUST?

Just because he pays u some attention and touches u here and there does not mean u are in LOVE. Probably u are attracted to the attention u are getting from a man, what...

My boyfriend and I are intending to get married. He is 13 years older than me.

We both intend to have children but we cannot decide when to have them. In fact, this has become such a great issue...

Eura had a good post there! I am one of those who nit-pick on others too, especially those who are closest to me.

I guess most people who do this are brought up in a family who criticizes and...

If u want to lose weight now for his sake, be prepared to lose weight FOREVER for his sake.
If his friends are making fun of you now, imagine how much more insults you have to live up to for the...

Tell her exactly what u wrote here:


U need to be frank with her. She may be depressed. She might not want to let go. Or perhaps she just wants to teach u a lesson for dumping her. Anyhow, by...

Heard of "stolen moments are always sweeter"?

U think you love him but you are merely attracted to him because of the physical acts you two are involved in. No way you can turnaround and tell him...

Since u were already in a relationship where both love and sex existed, there is no way u can say that sex is separated from love and vice versa. Unless he is having some severe disease or physical...

Well... when u said , that is not too healthy. U must not sound desperate now and do not place yourself in a position where he calls the shots.

U can be nice to him but not at his every beck and...

I think I know the reason why you are glued to this man. You mentioned that you had many past relationships, be it short term or long term, but only this man kept you feeling that thing you called...

The counselling I suggested was professional counselling. One who has treated similar patients with the same problem. One who listens to you. One who follows up on your whole situation and hears the...

If that is your decision, u will do well as u seemed to be a determined person.
The crucial key here is to WANT to end it. There really are more things in life than a relationship. Try to think of...

Although I was not in love with a married man, I was once in love with a man who double-timed. He courted his girlfriend and started a relationship in February. He then made me his girlfriend (or...

I understand how you feel when you get too emotionally involved. It happens to nice gals who are too giving in a relationship with guys too. Often times, these are bad guys because they like to take...

What is Alpha feto protein?

I checked it out in the internet and read that it is mostly found in high degrees in infants. My sister had recently taken a blood test that includes cancer markers....

It is not that females go all out to make friends with the guys. It is just that we do not limit ourselves to having female friends only. I am sure you do have some female friends too, not the...

Rebound relationships seldom work out right. He left a 10 year relationship just to be with u. That is a HUGE decision he has made. Anyone can tell him he is wrong to take that leap, especially his...

I am also one of the nice gals, but I have that fire in me if I'm provoked. Yet, I do not simply slap a man in the face by telling him that "I have a boyfriend", before he makes obvious moves to...

Just from a female's point of view...
Girls want to be pursued. Yeah, we all know that. But girls also want to pursue. That is why bad boys have all the nice gals sticking to them like glue.

It...

Commitment phobia is so common nowadays. There are simply too many distractions for one to stay ignorant of the choices out there.

If your guy acknowledges (he does not need to take any actions,...

Yes, I think not being able to be monogamous has biological basis. People who cheat and have affairs and eventually get divorced, will see their next generation or siblings in similar fashion.

It...

This is a sign of immaturity. Age does not tell it all. When a guy is mad and he acts upon his anger by cheating (or anything of that sort), he is simply not boyfriend material.

Please let him go...

Ya... talaniman said it right. Of all the men in the world and you settled for one who is married and not even there.

You need not put up with the insults ever again if you rid yourself of this...