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Who said I was judging anyone? If you read my posts right I was in no way judging that he is... besides I don't even know for a fact that he is so how can I judge him? I am not preventing him from...

Thank you for your input... I am not totally sure that he really is... im hoping that he's not... but sometimes falling for someone is not always something you can help... this is not a situation I...

At the end of the day whatever the causes are whether it be by environmental conditions etc but the fact here is that it is not natural.this is the point.. it is not natural.

Stoneweilder: - God condemn's sin... maybe I said it wrong... but homosexuality is sinful and if u disagree then its up to u... you probably wouldn't understand so as to reason with me, so it is...

Xrayman... you could disagree with all I have to say and I expect that because you are trying to accommodate yourself and of course the bible didn't help... so you would by all means find everything...

You would disagree because you do not know right from wrong or good from evil because you do not believe there is a God... but whether he is into me or whateva the case may be... I hope he isn't gay...

I agree... it is sad and as much as some may not like it... but I pity those who think otherwise.. its obviously pointless arguing this with some non-believers.. and it is also obvious they reject it...

The bottom line here is God would never create a person this way if he was against homosexuality... that in itself defeats the whole purpose... for those of you who do not believe in God, you may beg...

being gay is harmful where your health is concerned... evidence have shown that there is a very high prevalence of Aids in the gay & bi sexual community... and I believe it is abnormal... it is...

While I respect your opinion I just think this is a very uneducated response...

While I respect your opinion on being gay... I hope that he can change for his own sake... and not just for the mare reason that I may want to be with him... but as a true friend also... I have faith...

Talaniman... my problem here is that I was not the one in the first place to go after this... he has been after me for years asking me to be with him and talking about he he feels... he gets jealous...

Thanks michael for your help... ive actually been trying to avoid making much with him, calling him and so on... its a real torture I can tell you because I am so used to being around him and being...

I respect your opinion on it... I believe anythign is possible by the grace of God... I hope not because I may want to be with him but for his sake that he can change this kind of life... I pray that...

Hi Michael... I am female and in a similar situation as you are... just that its with a guy whom I suspect might be bi or gay... but he denies it... we started as best of friends for a no. of years...

I used to use the razor to shave my bikini area but I realised that I got razor bumps when the hair starts to grow back... I have stopped using the blade and using the hair removal cream which has...

I know that I did love him in a frienly way before I started feeling this way about him... and I do care for him a lot... I believe he cares just as much for me but right now ever since I started...

To americanboy & KP... we've kissed a few times and all the times were very intense... and not like a playful kiss... some of which lead to us making out(not sex)... we've made out a few time and...

U never know... it might just be your boyfriend who's playing games on you to see how far you guna get with this... or maybe just someone else fooling around... just a thought... because I've dun...

If he's real and is serious about being interested in you.. he would make the first move in calling you... but I wouldn't waste my time doing that.

I think you should just ignore him... he might be a stalker... you just never know who it could possibly be... when I get these things I ignore them considering all the psychos that are around...

I agree coming to think of it... if you have a job at this age... all the more reason to save your money for other things that are more important such as your education, health, etc.you need to set...

Just be sure its what u really want to do...

I think he's a weirdo because if he's interested I don't c why he hasn't said anythign else other than these two lines... he's probably just foolin around trying to get your attn for whatever reason...

Thanks for your help... I have been in 2 long term relationships during the time we've known each other... he never seemed to have had much of a problem then though there were few times he made...

How would you recommend that I try to take myself out of this situation... I think how things used to be in the past is the best way for us because all these emotions, confusion, arguments and...

Listen to that inner voice and do what u feel is best for you... you will be satisfied in the end.

Hence one of my reasons for being frustrated... he gets upset and behaves cold with me when other guys are attracted to me... then he says all these things to me about how I know how he feels about...

I don't know where the gay problem roots from but I personally don't believe that God would actually create someone to be gay... it is not a Godly thing... and I hope some day I can understand what...

I totally agree... saying it is sick is just to emphasize on it... we all know that... but you really need to report this to someone in authority in your family and if necessary to the police...

I'm a bit lost in your last comment. Can you please mame me understand better... also, I am not seeing anyone... I haven't been in over a year... who he saw me having lunch with was only just a...

I think he is sick... I know these things happen where family members like cousins get atracted to each other but we all know this is so wrong... its called incest esp when it gets physical... first...

Well... since its not been very long since he's been in that mood I don't think you should jump to any conclusions as yet... give it some time and see what happens... monitor him and the way he...

I agree kevin... darling... if you can afford it and you think he's worth it its up to you... but if you have any doubts what soever which I think you do otherwise you wouldn't be here asking this...

Maybe it was a bad idea for me to say this but it wasn't said to make him feel guilty... I was frustrated about it all and the fact that he refused to speak to me... he just won't get over what...

Also, I think that the fact that you are more financially stable than he is and that you are the one helping him out most times in that aspect... this is more reason for him to show you some sort of...

Personally, I think that you are being used... this is just my opinion.. I may be wrong... I know of so many situations here around me where these things happen and its funny when I hear a lot of...

I appreciate your opinion and you do have some valid points... however.. my mind is telling me not to allow this to happen but part of my body wants to be with him... and you made a point about...

Personally, I know what I have to say may not be in your favour, but from what you're saying I think its probably an obsesion. And these things do happen to people but its not a very good thing......

Thanks guys... but the funny thing is a few weeks ago before all this tension came along which was as a result of me having lunch with another male friend very casually... it was like the day before...

A part of me tells me that he might just be confused denise but sometimes I am just so convinced that he's leaning more towards that side because of he reaction around guys... like times we go to the...

I definitely want to give it a try now but one thing I do know is that if we have to do this I woudlnt' be happy if he also wants to be with other guys as well.. do you think there's a possibility he...

We are both the same age 25, he's just a few months older... we get along so very well... we share everything together except maybe what he's been hiding away from me... I am willing to give this a...

I would say, if you're guna turn gay because of this, keep wanting her if dating other women duzn't help... how long have you guys been separated? If it hasn't been that long I would say that you...

I don't think he was ever abused as a child but if ever he never spoke about it... everytime I ask him when we go out why is it that he only flirts with guys and not females... he says that he does...

I'm actually female... I know that he's been asking me to be with him for a long time but like I said he gets into different modes now and then... like when he brought it up in the past I was dating...

I just want to know how possible it is for a gay guy to go straight because I have this friend who is actually my best friend and we both go way back from school and now we work together... we do...