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    Just like she said, it was bad timing. She has...

    Just like she said, it was bad timing. She has her mind made up and you aren't going to be able to change it. You have to let her go. She wants to find herself and build a career in NY and doesn't...
  2. I agree, give her all the space she wants. She...

    I agree, give her all the space she wants. She has a lot of stress going on, and you stressing her out more, isn't going to help the situation. She told you she feels like you just sit there and...
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    Vent to us, and don't call him. You will only be...

    Vent to us, and don't call him. You will only be a booty call too him. He isn't worth it!
  4. He is only one man! There are so many more out...

    He is only one man! There are so many more out there. He left and went back to his country, that would tell me something and it didn't include you. I don't mean to be harsh, but I think he just wants...
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    You have doubts, so take it slow. Long distance...

    You have doubts, so take it slow. Long distance relationships can work, but it takes a lot on both parts to give. Are you scared for some reason you think he would cheat or something, being so far...
  6. Don't contact her at all. Writing her a letter,...

    Don't contact her at all. Writing her a letter, is just telling her you care. She has moved on, and she was never upfront and honest with you. Hanging on is giving you false hope at this point. You...
  7. I agree you need to sit down and address these...

    I agree you need to sit down and address these issues with him. Tell him it hurts you, to bring up his exes. He is with you and no them..
  8. Doesn't sound like he is going to change anytime...

    Doesn't sound like he is going to change anytime soon. Sounds like he needs a lot of growing up. But drinking is his priority, not kids. I honestly, would think about my child and not him. He is not...
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    Update, well I haven't seen him since my vacation...

    Update, well I haven't seen him since my vacation three weeks ago. We touch base and talked on the phone, But, the first part of this week I called him. He text me once Monday and I text him, twice...
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    I think it's very nice of you too watch his...

    I think it's very nice of you too watch his niece. It's nice to hear you will be going into nursing school in the fall. Remember, never make a man your priority! Build your life and your career. One...
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    Your way too hard on yourself, lighten up. Stop...

    Your way too hard on yourself, lighten up. Stop putting yourself down. YOUR girlfriend senses all this stuff. Your beating yourself up. I understand jobs are hard too find, but it's a heck of lot...
  12. Question: Female 'Puffery'

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    Let it go! It's not worth getting upset about....

    Let it go! It's not worth getting upset about. Your friend walked away, kept the peace. It was just a friend, so don't get all bent up about it. Your friend was done, end of her conversation. Tal, is...
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    I would look into that Louise, that isn't true...

    I would look into that Louise, that isn't true you can't change your number, because one of my friends just changed her number recently, and she was on contract. We all are! When you call them and...
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    I would have done the same thing, change my...

    I would have done the same thing, change my number and blocked every possible way he could contact me, and Louise you haven't done that yet. I don't understand what your hanging on too. He is still...
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    Your not going to change him. If he doesn't...

    Your not going to change him. If he doesn't compliment you now, he is never going to compliment you. It is was it is. I wouldn't take it personal. You have a choice either accept him for what he is...
  16. I think you reading way too much into it. Kind of...

    I think you reading way too much into it. Kind of overbearing a little bit. You want too much out of this relationship, and he isn't able to give you that right now. I think you need to back off a...
  17. Why is it the guys want to stay with the girls...

    Why is it the guys want to stay with the girls that treat them like crap? You can do much better. She has jumped from guy to guy, that would tell me something. You need to get over this girl and fast.
  18. Why are you away from her? She can't be with you?...

    Why are you away from her? She can't be with you? Are you a couple and how old are both of you? Tell us more.
  19. Sorry prowaker, I don't mean to be hard on you,...

    Sorry prowaker, I don't mean to be hard on you, but your going about this all the wrong way. After you break-up its hard to be friends with someone when you were a couple together. You haven't even...
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    We all make mistakes, and now its time to move...

    We all make mistakes, and now its time to move on. We learn and grow from them.
  21. Prowaker, sorry but if my ex boyfriend behaved...

    Prowaker, sorry but if my ex boyfriend behaved the way you did and went after the guy I wouldn't have anything to do with you at all, anymore. What did you get out of it? You were being childish, and...
  22. We all live busy lives, but he is making contact...

    We all live busy lives, but he is making contact with you. Don't read into it. They are what they are. He is set in his ways and your not going to change it. Either you have to accept him the way he...
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    She just seems real busy! I don't think she means...

    She just seems real busy! I don't think she means to hurt you anyway when your trying to keep the friendship going. I wouldn't take it personal. Maybe, just back off a little bit, and let her get...
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    Every time you answer the phone, it's going to...

    Every time you answer the phone, it's going to not let you move on. It seems to me she is dangling you at the sideline. She doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, but she wants to keep on...
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    You are letting this destroy your marriage. If...

    You are letting this destroy your marriage. If you keep on harping like your doing your going to send him right out the door. Forget it, before it's too late. You have to be an adult and act like...
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    That's the exact reason why my wall is up, I keep...

    That's the exact reason why my wall is up, I keep it as a friendship. Been there, done it!
  27. Control freak, not good. Doesn't trust you, no...

    Control freak, not good. Doesn't trust you, no good. Curses at you, no good. Divorce him, your like in an emotional roller coaster. Your kids are grown, kick him to the ground, and get away from him....
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    I don't know Tickle, he says he isn't going back...

    I don't know Tickle, he says he isn't going back to her. He said it's been going on too long the head games over the past couple of years and he is too old for this. He told me he enjoys my company...
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    I think Abby if he breaks up with her, then it's...

    I think Abby if he breaks up with her, then it's a whole different situation. If he isn't happy with her then he needs to leave her. He is the only one that can change the situation, if he cares...
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    Update everybody! Well he, has called me a lot...

    Update everybody! Well he, has called me a lot over the past couple of weeks. I have been on vacation this week from school and we have been with each other the past four days, spent a lot of time...
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    That is not love, and this guy doesn't love you....

    That is not love, and this guy doesn't love you. He says hurtful things to you, and I wouldn't give him the time of day. He is cruel and mentally abusive. Get your dignity and respect and walk away...
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    Actually, you shouldn't have to tell her you left...

    Actually, you shouldn't have to tell her you left for a two week holiday Your relationship ended, and sometimes, we realize things when it's too late. Maybe this what the both of you need, NC. Glad...
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    I agree totally with you Redhed, feel like his...

    I agree totally with you Redhed, feel like his sounding board at times. He takes one step forward and then two steps back. His last conversation was wouldn't that be funny if we ever got back...
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    Thank you, Makimaki for your kind words. We shall...

    Thank you, Makimaki for your kind words. We shall see what happens in the future, if I happens, its fine, if not, then I know it's not meant to be. I didn't allow myself to get this close this time....
  35. Question: My biggest issue

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    It's great you have family close by, and you have...

    It's great you have family close by, and you have sisters to vent to. I am sure your Dad will be so proud of you, when you pass those exams. Did you ever think when you become a CPA you won't have...
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    Way too much to read! Bottom line, if your not...

    Way too much to read! Bottom line, if your not happy with the relationship and you feel you can't trust him, then leave it.
  37. Question: Friends

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    Exactly, she is using you. I'd stay clear away...

    Exactly, she is using you. I'd stay clear away from her.
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    I am so sorry for what you are going through. You...

    I am so sorry for what you are going through. You just picked two wrong men! You need to get your own life in order with your children, and stay away from them both. Sorry, but your first husband...
  39. Question: My biggest issue

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    I am sure it hurts when people say you are needy....

    I am sure it hurts when people say you are needy. Actually, someone said that to me, years ago, and you know, they are so wrong. I am quite the opposite, we all go through it. Just stay focused on...
  40. Question: Helppp me please

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    I don't understand the texts, saying he still...

    I don't understand the texts, saying he still misses you, but then he is out with other girls. Have you talked to him since the breakup? We all make mistakes, and sometimes we find out when its too...
  41. Question: My biggest issue

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    There is nothing wrong with you. Stop putting...

    There is nothing wrong with you. Stop putting yourself down. You should be proud of yourself, to where you are, now going for your CPA. Your on the right track. It's just that you need other...
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    I agree with Redhed, if he is in a relationship,...

    I agree with Redhed, if he is in a relationship, yes, then he is off limits. If you find out, he is single, when then you might have a chance. Just by looking at someone doesn't mean it's love.
  43. Question: Unrequited love

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    There is actually nothing you can do to change...

    There is actually nothing you can do to change things now, he is with someone else. He made the decision to have another girlfriend, and just considers you a friend. As hard as it is, you have to...
  44. Both of you went through some rough times with...

    Both of you went through some rough times with horrible divorces. You might of healed faster than he did. Its OK for him to feel like that, he sounds like he is afraid to get close again, because he...
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    Well, he did call last week, and I was patient....

    Well, he did call last week, and I was patient. He explained to me he had to get away and went boating with his guy friends fishing. We chatted for quite awhile, and told me he was probably putting...
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    Thank you Tal, I will do just that!

    Thank you Tal, I will do just that!
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    Thanks for the advice, Devorameira. I will do...

    Thanks for the advice, Devorameira. I will do just that. I guess I am jumping too conlcusions, too fast.
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    Trying to find a solution

    Threads merged


    Wish I could merge my threads from before but don't know how, sorry. Dating every so often with same gentlemen from grammar school, not a lot, like every couple of months I would...
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    No one knows the reason why she slept with him,...

    No one knows the reason why she slept with him, and why she told you, she only knows. Sure, its going to bother you. But think about it, do you really think you want someone like that, if she can...
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    That's a real hurtful thing to find out she slept...

    That's a real hurtful thing to find out she slept with someone else after 5 months. Honestly, there is nothing you can do, it's her decision and her life. I guess she had made it clear you weren't a...
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