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It's been a few months since I was last on here contributing, and unfortunately now I'm back on the other side of the fence. I had posted back in the beginning of the relationship about struggles...

Don't make her a priority and let her make you an option. This is clearly the situation and you don't need to waste anymore of your time. You have already started ignoring her, so stick with No...

In my opinion, it seems to be a sign of immaturity. It's seems like he wants to be with you, but maybe doesn't want to fully commit, leaving himself a way out. When I was about his age, this seemed...

It seems as though his intentions may no longer be what you want them to be. It sounds like he no longer loves you the way he used to, but still cares for you as a friend. It would seem to be a...

Nothing personal, but your issues go way beyond the relationship. You should consider seeing someone also about how to handle your anger and cope with difficult situations so that you don't wind up...

Agree with ironhide... he is no longer your boyfriend, therefore you have every right to do as you choose. You are your own person and have NO obligations to him.

In the best interest of your friend, she should NOT give this guy a second chance. Regardless of whether things are over with the girl he cheated with, this needs to be the end for him. Especially...

In my lifetime, I have experienced, that most women will appreciate a man that takes the time to craft something that they have written/created with their own hands and feelings. You don't need our...

As Talaniman would say, don't make someone a priority in your life, that makes you an option in theirs. That line says it all, and has probably been referred to many times on this site. He may say...

I'm not going to disagree with any of the previous posts. I do not in any way support violence. However, if this is the first time it has ever happened, perhaps you could suggest that he talk to...

Keep your head up! I know it's tough, and hard to imagine being able to function without her. You have overcome some incredible obstacles though since your injury. You have to start to live your life...

You should explain to him that it's not okay for him to say those things and then try to redeem himself at a later time. Make him aware that you don't appreciate his comments and games, and that you...

You said yourself that your ex deserves better... so, you need to just move on with your life and let her get the better that she deserves. Of course you yearn for her, it seems as though she was a...

You can't change him. There is only one person that is going to be able to get him to make the changes in his life he would need to be the proper father, and that is him. He needs a wake up call of...

She basically used you for whatever she wanted. She doesn't sound to be a very classy girl to begin with. Don't waste your time worrying about her, and just find a girl that isn't going to use you...

It's good to be optimistic... but it's also good to be realistic. You say that you are happy with him, but it hurts that he chooses others over you and that the last couple of months have sucked...

Well, perhaps you really need to evaluate whether you want to be in the relationship. Not to sound drastic, but if he is comfortable only seeing you a few hours a week, and that is not sufficient for...

It's not about you disappearing, that not really what you want to do... just do you. He is only really concerned about himself and doing what he wants to do. Don't make yourself so available. You...

Well you are in a tough situation if he doesn't see the problem. Therefore, you need to figure out what you want to do. If you aren't happy with the situation and he is content and not seeing a...

... then the advice you giving her, in regarsa to considering leaving him should be based solely on the likelihood that his issues with being verbally abusive may never change... we have evidence...

... and you have all successfully just wasted two pages of not even addressing her original question. It is pretty clear she is not emotionally prepared to leave, so instead of bickering over...

Have we forgotten that the OP came to this site, which goes to show that she is not wanting to be done with the relationship just quite yet. If she was completely content with that decision, then she...

Cat I appreciate your input and I now have a better understanding of the damge that could be cause by me avoiding addressing the situation. I will need to consider how I would like to approach the...

Okay, fair enough, you broke up back in December, however, this doesn't really change all that much. He was confused, and now has clearly shown you that he is no longer confused and has chosen to not...

You should take this time, and as jmw said, respect the break, and decide how much you want this relationship. I have no doubt that your unemployment has put a mental strain on your relationship. You...

I agree with the previous posts, although I think, even though you have spoken to him about how hurtful the things are that he says and does, I think you need to take the time and lay it out for him...

Okay, basically what has happened so far, according to your post, is that he began to have doubts with your relationship, and then only a week later, had another girlfriend. Now he says that he loves...

You have already told yourself what you need to do, twice in your own post. I know you said that you are meant to be, but not to be blunt, but quite simply if that was the case, then he would not be...

OK, I can do without the "sounds like you need to grow up" statements. I am appreciative of all the other advice, input, and criticism, however, I feel as though this has nothing to do with me...

I'm sorry it has taken me so long to respond, but unfortunately, even though I was able to read your responses about a week ago, I wasn't in a location that I could respond. I may have made the...

I have been dating her for about 2 1/5 months. I am 27 and she is 25. Things started great... we hit it off really welI... Well am a sexual person and she is as well... and things went went well in...

You have said yourself that you can't see the future happening with you two in a relationship, so I think that pretty much answers your question. Why would you stay in a relationship representing...

Is it abnormal that you still are not over it?

No. Some people take longer to heal than others, and depending on how in to the relationship a person is, it may take longer for some.

Are you...

"Til death do you part". That is what you should be remembering at a time like this. It isn't his fault that you decided to marry thinking that it would change him. He held up his end of the deal,...

The girl has issues. I think you cared more than she ever did, and she has some internal issues of her own that she needs to work out, and not just the temper issue. I'm talking about commitment,...

The only reaosn that the mistakes you made should matter, is if you haven't learned from them. Think about it, she is a woman that is doing well for herself, if she was so bothered by those mistakes...

I would think of it as a great thing, as long as she doesn't hold it against you. It should be motivation for you to want to get a degree also or continue to continue to advance in your field of...

How about you think about HIM and quit thinking about yourself?? Are you seriously considering going on with this relationship without telling him? You have laid the ground for a dishonest...

What was going so well in the relationship and what wonderful life are you talking about?? HE LIED TO YOU! You told him that you weren't comfortable with him doing that, and he agreed to stop... and...

What was going so well in the relationship and what wonderful life are you talking about?? HE LIED TO YOU! You told him that you weren't comfortable with him doing that, and he agreed to stop... and...

Right now, you need to think about WHAT YOU WANT and HOW YOU FEEL. What he is saying or doing, doesn't matter. Remember when you first met and you started relationship... I'm sure he was really...

Have you ever heard of the term, "have your cake and eat it too"? Basically, that seems to be what is going on here. It seems like your gut instinct is on the right track. He is and has been ...

There is nothing wrong with being civil, but it only having been 13 days, you need to be careful. You might not feel like you are giving yourself false hope right now, but over the next few weeks or...

Hard to tell if she is playing games considering the limited info, but to be honest, you have already answered this yourself. Yes, it's easier to say to kick someone to the curb, than it is to do it,...

Yes its cheating. You shouldn't be talking to anyone like that if I you have a girlfriend. You are being very disrespectful to your girlfriend. Think of it this way, how do you think your girlfriend...

Working the graveyard shift and since it is past midnight where I am now, I just wanted to wish everyone who may celebrate Xmas, a Merry Xmas, and Happy Holidays to those who may celebrate other...

I hope that all goes well!

In addition to my comment on nohelp4u's post, basically if you still want her, then you are going to have to forget what she had one while you weren't together, including her sleeping with someone...

Turtle, I'm telling you right now, you are going to continue to kill yourself over this. She has already created a reputation as a game player and shown that she is just in this for herself. She is...

Knowing your ages has now made a case and point of its own. You are at a point in your life in which you are ready to build a life and do certain things as you have already lived through your...