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Thank you guys so much, you are really helping my decision. I feel bad about asking for advice, so maybe that is a clue to as NOT to do it?

Sorry, I meant it is so hard to wait.

No, I would never have actual sex with another man. Phone sex would just help me during the orgasm I would give myself. I am just really confused. I guess I need to wait on this, but it is so hard...

See, I came to you guys not for an "okay" But for a little guidance I've never felt this way before and I want to know if it is normal.

Well actually no, we had just had sex before he left, and he had pleasured me for atleat 20 minutes before that. But when he left my friend called and we are really just friends and we talk a lot on...

No, it isn't but I've been really horny lately and my boyfriend would feel akward if he were to have phone sex with me. That's why I asked my friend.. This sounds really bad, I know, But I need...

All right, so I have a boyfriend, we have never had phone sex but last night after my boyfriend left my house, my guy friend called and we were talking and I was really horny so I asked him to have...

Try hanging with her sometime, and if you go to her house, just investigate a little, see if you find it. If you do, go show her and be like I thought you said you gave it back? Or something. Lol....

The dildo may not be hitting the right spots. If you have intercourse with a guy make sure to be on top. That hits all the right spots for you to have an orgasm.

Happy Birthday :-)

More information would help us better answer your question. Lol. How long have you two been together?

You will know when you are in love, trust me. Right now, it seems as if it is just lust. When you love someone you look beyond just those aspects you listed, you want to be able to talk with her...

Don't cheat on her, if she finds out, that will just make the matters worse. Children put a lot of stress on your intimate life. If she doesn't want to have sex with you as much, maybe she is just...

Well no whenever he does do it, it is amazing. I just don't see why he doesn't start it. I have to initiate it.

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5 years difference? Sorry, but at 11, you really do not know what love is. He must be after only one thing if he is willing to want a relationship with someone...

Oh, all right. Well, in the meantime, don't move where you are sleeping, because then the bed bugs will change their location too. Try some calimine lotion to stop the itching and cortisone cream to...

How do you know it is bed bugs ?

Well, you should ask him to sit down and talk with you, and ask him not to take it the wrong way or anything. But he really needs to know you are uncomfortable with this. That way he can do something...

I agree with nicespringgirl. She makes two good points. Make sure he is okay with it, and that you are both mature enough. My parents are 8 years apart, I honestly don't think age matters if the two...

Yes, break up with her. First of all, she is married, and she is most likely not going to leave her husband. Second, she should support you in whatever you want to do, not put you down. It is time to...

A lot of relationships begin with a friendship. Tell him how you feel, he may feel the same. And see where it leads. :-)

It is all up to him. Give it some more time, continue to hangout with him, but don't make it physical. Don't say you love him. If he loves you, he knows you love him and doesn't need to hear it. Just...

You need to talk to him in person and tell him why you want to break up with him. No need to make up excuses. Just go over what is wrong with the relationship, if he says he will change, maybe give...

I think this is just an excuse for him to get rid of you and date other girls. Harsh, I know, but true? Yes.

Maybe pick her up and go out to a movie or something. Don't bring her back to your place because you don't want her to get the idea that you want her for sex. Dinner and a movie is always a good...

Well, guys do need friends. But if he doesn't let you hang with him and his friends once in a while, maybe he thinks they won't accept you or something. Which is yes, ridiculous. Try talking some of...

Some guys just have different tastes. Especially in what turns them on. See why having phone sex bothers him so much. See if he could ever really get into it, and if not, just don't do it. Which is...

Not all men are just looking for sex. But the ones who are, do not even bother with. If you think about it biblically... God made men this way, so babies could be created. I will admit, most men are...

Just because she talks to you on the phone for long periods, does not mean she is interested in having a relationship with you. She may just think you are really funny, or are helpful when she needs...

I think him stressing out about it is just making the situation worse. Forget about faking it, and forget about how he is stressed about not being able to make you orgasm. You need to be mentally...

About how much foreplay do you get beforehand ? Most women need at least 20 minutes of foreplay to get sexually aroused and be able to reach orgasm. Have him pleasure you for a while before having...

One more thing, if you then date this guy after he breaks it off with your friend, Do not think he won't do the same thing to you as he did to your friend. If he can get away with it in one...

I don't think it is considered cheating to just fantasize about someone else. I am sure your husband has done it before, so don't feel guilty. You have been with him for a long time and you just need...

Before continuing with this, ask him if he is going to breakup with her. If he says he doesn't want her anymore, then he should do something about it. And just because she did it to you ONCE doesn't...

Thank you all so much for your help. I just feel like pleasing myself in front of him so maybe he gets the idea that I want some pleasure from HIM. He rarely pleasures me on his own. Usually I will...

Okay, so I read everything said here. I don't really have much more advice, because smoothy has pretty much said it ALL. So maybe this is just a recap I don't know, but it doesn't hurt to try.

If...

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All right, so I always hear it is a huge turn on for guys to watch you "pleasure yourself." Well I tried it once, and he said it didn't turn him on at all, why ? I mean yeah, all guys are different,...