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I am not obsessing, it is defiantly not eating me up or anything like that and I sure won't let it destroy the relationship. I think I am just a bit worried because I have never really had any reason...

I am not a jealous person so this is a new feeling for me. I have no doubt that my girl friend loves me and wants to be with me. But when we were broken up over the last few months we both slept with...

Just quick update….

She just booked her flight home for August 2nd. She really wanted to come home on time to go to my family friends wedding with me. She will be home to stay now and we are back...

Also.. I have forgiven her but told her that it will take me a while to fully get over it.

Thanks everyone.

She is now coming back in August, calls me one to two times a day, sent me a gift, and has said a number of things to me to reassure that I am the only one and that she loves me...

It totally depends on the situation.

Sorry... I meant to say "you two have a good chance" in my lat post.

I think you played it perfect, keep it up! And just get out there with your friends even if it is hard to get the motivation make yourself and you will have fun. It is easy to focus on the negatives...

My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me near the end of March then moved far away with her friend fro the summer. It was almost 100% due to my busy busy work schedule which plagued our relationship...

My option is the same as my last post. And that is what worked for me.

Honestly I think you need to make a choice. Do you want to give it a try and get her back? Or do you really want to move on, forget about her and cut off communication? I think the later is easier...

I think if you play it cool that's the best way. No contact is good for sure but I think its best to talk or email occasionally and keep it super casual and don't get deep. This will create good...

This is what worked for me and few other people I have talked to. The site seems to be very pro 'no contact'. My approach was a bit different. I would not tell her you are going to move on. Just give...

I don't think the break had anything to do with it. Same thing happened with me as well; I broke up with her and for the most part she gave me space then I went back to her.

How often to you call...

Its way easier to focus on the negatives, I did all the time and defiantly gave up hope a bunch of times. The not knowing thing is super hard and if she is unwilling to talk to you at all at this...

Well she wanted very limited contact I talked to her maybe 2 or 3 times a month she was gone for almost three months before she visited and she called me maybe 2 or 3 times total and a bit of MSN....

I went through the same thing. I was able to contactact her and she contacted me a bit as well but almost the same situation. I made sure to go out have fun, improve my sitution and word got back to...

It went amazing! We had the best 12 days ever! She went back to where she is living for the summer but is now trying to sublet her house so she can come back home. We have agreed to get back together...

Cool thanks guys. Sorry if I made it seem like she is getting her stuff for a permanent move, but that's not the case (thank god!). She is just coming back because she is super home sick and wants to...

I agree with what you are saying to an extent. She Is confused and for sure doesn't feel the same way she used to about me. The main reason being that I worked all the time with my own business...

Thanks, things are getting better every day

Dude, I am going into my third month of almost the same situation. We are even the same ages as you guys! After the first week of being really messed up I got my head strait and told her all the...

I have limited my contact big time. I have not tried ‘no contact’ yet and I am not sure if it’s the best approach for my particular situation. Here is the deal as posted in a previous thread: She...

Thanks rockabilly1955mama

Sorry last sentence should read "IT just reached a breaking point" (as in the relationship)

For sure and I really think she believes me. But she has been following me around for the past two years going with me where my work takes me and she kind of lost her identity. She is now trying to...

For sure! I am self employed and have one business partner. We were stretched to thin anyway so we decided to hire another full time employee to balance our schedules. This has happened since we...

She left me about two months ago because I worked too much. We were together for almost 4 years and the work situation became a problem about two years in but it got a lot worse the last 8 months or...