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Totally agree, sorry. Game player!

Hi sorry for what your going through it suks!! But, honestly, don't contact her unless you have to for the child's sake. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Its so true, and if there is any...

Your not an idiot, lol, you love someone and can't understand why this happened.. we all feel that with our own situatuions. I have felt like an idiot at times too though... but it takes time to...

Hi missing, sorry for yr troubles you are having... I don't think he hates you, he is just guilty right now for his actions towards you. If you don't mind me asking does he or is he using drugs? ...

Thanks tal ( ;

That's a great story, glad to hear it too. Sorry for his passing. I think some of us wish that could happen. In my case I've tried I was always there getting back, I guess it depends on the...

Hi, not quite sure of the answer to that... I want to believe that for you and me, but then I say why the hell did they want someone else to begin with... my situation of course a little...

Hi, sorrry to hear about yr situation... im going through some things also, read my posts.. exspecialy my last one, found out the ex (we ended 6 weeks ago) total of 12 yrs, is seeing a bisexual,...

in my situation, he kind of is the one that usually does no effort and I complain, which leads to ending.YET, he is the one who always comes back saying all the right things, and seems so true, ...

Hi dennis thanks for the hug I needed it... ( : u might be right, about him needing someone beneath him to control, someone who has less in all ways... to bad though cause I gave him my all and...

Hi tal, thanks for the input... I try everyday to push forward, and I'm doing good. I think it's a little harder for me cause I'm in the same block as him, have to see hhim and whoever, and have...

Yeah, this was a wake up call for me!! It just hurts when u hear it, but as with everything else it fades... ( ;

Hi, me again, venting, and getting better every day moving on. But in the process I hear things from people about my ex. ( we ended again 6 weeks ago)

Any way, it came to my attention...

Sounds good, I'm having a bowl of rice crispies... boring, but was in the mood for it...

Exactly, not sure I even want him anymore, can't realyy trust his words anymore... once I'm ready ill except that "right guy" for me... lol. I haven't really given anyone that chance YET.. but I...

Hey, you the fights are normal it's that you are there no matter what, and that's always how I felt and my ex too, but not sure where or why it changed... every one thought we were always meant...

My ex is italian too, sicillian though, lol,

Yes, I am happy, but I did love being married, that's why I always tried again with the dummy... llol

Oh my god she is absolutely beautiful... congrats on being a newlywed and yr baby!! Marriage is great when yr both in it for the same reasons... hope it happens for me again.

Are you italian?? U...

Hi hettie... u lost a ring? When did you c it last? That sucks, I still have so many things of my ex that I hold on to, I know how you must feel... sorry... bottom line is if someone wants you...

Soooo funny I'm cracking up, yr sense of humor reminds me a lot of me and my girls... lol... funny.. yeah the first few weeks I did the finger thing, left like 20 voice mails in 5 days(cant help...

Hey how are you? Doing pretty good, went out for a few beverages yesterday... lol.. with a few friends, always laughing with them, thank you so much for asking, I really appreciate it hon......

Hi thanks... yes you are so right, we put so much trust in it, which I think 2 people should do for each other its just everyone else notices your being a fool except u! Because you don't want to...

So true, "when something doesnt seem right it isnt", if only it was that easy to know it and so something about it we would all be much better off...

Hi hettie, my ex lives 10 houses away from my wrk, and in the same city... every time we have broken up, I have the utmost respect for him, meaning I never bother him, whether he is with someone...

So true... once you realize they are not as into it as they were or as your you should back off and leave... I know I put waaaayyyy too much effort into someone who didn't. But I thought him always...

I know, I got tons of texts from my ex, along with other things and let him come back, but he is so unstable everyday, like her. It will make you crazy!! I know it does me. And he had to add...

Thanks tal, so embarresed that I trusted him again, he comes back and it always ends with me leaving 20 voicemails to get things of my chest, which now that the dust has settled I wish I didn't, ...

I know how you feel, my ex has done this to me several times, but the effort he put in to get me back made me believe he wasn't playing a game, well its been 6 weeks since he and I talked..

He...

Hi thanks for th response, sorry to hear yr sad too! Yes I know it takes time, my problem is or was I always believed him when he said I was his soul mate, then he does this... I guess actions...

Thanks a lot, u made me laugh...

Thanks was suppose to go out tonight but canceled... just wish he was honest, or at least dumped me first...

He isn't worth it, thanks for responding..

hi everyone, back again venting!

long story short... to sum up all my other post on here, after trying again with my ex and failing 6 weeks ago because of him always pursuing me only to end up...

[QUOTE=gmspitali]It is really weird reading these stories because everything that has been written here and similar stories shared like many are almost identical to mine in one way or another. I...

I've been through it for 5 yrs... just ended again 1 month ago, he always wanted me back, and me like a dumbazz was there... kind of think the same as u, used me for comfort, until maybe...

Its all nomal what u say and did.. after 3 yrs with someone it shouldn't matter when u see each other the only thing that changes things is the person who has a change of heart!! then all this kaos...

Nothing is stupid, give it time, let some time pass while the both of you can think about things while not together... if it is meant to be it will work itself out, at least that's how I feel.
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Tell yr story...

[QUOTE=Canada_Sweety]hair.. i know where you're coming from. Difference being that I try leaving and apparently I'm such a good catch, they don't wantto let go. I'm not proud but I've even had to...

Yeah, u can say that again. If someone isn't feeling it just screw, I know myself, I can't use someone, at least not for long periods. If I feel its not there I have to leave. People are...

So true but why? Why does it end up this way? What happened to just being in love with someone, enjoying what u have the good and bad

So true, I was the revolving door also, till he started dating someone maybe while with me, now he doesn't care if I'm dead or alive, guess I was good till another came along.

Don't see her,...

I totally agree with u. only I'm a girl, and it seemed like the more I gave whether material or love, or just being there through good and bad, its like it turned him off!!
I'm a little...

I agree... at least I try to... lol... every time my ex came back it didn't work, and not cause of me, I think I was just comfort to him like a habbit, when there's nothing else to do... so dumb...

Me too! On top of it my ex is dating his neighbor now and they live in the same city and 10 house up from my work.. I see them a lot, and my stomach turns!! I guess in my case its just another...

My ex always comes to me crying, I'm his soulmate, he grew up... (we are 38) and I'm ashamed to say I was always there for him, believing him, and then he is the one to never try with effort. ...

I understand what yr going through, I'm in it myself right now. If you read my posts you will understand.

I haven't even posted about me going back with him again since my last posts, I'm kind...

Totally agree with you tal, I know I for one never did or would, and I had oppurtunities like others I'm sure. Its either in you or not...

I personaly think if she tok the time to tell u she is sorry, it means u will b hearing more from her... like she wants to get back or something... be prepared... gd luck

Are you kidding?? Insecure? U should be feeling that way... your gut feeling was right all the time. Its so easy for people to say your being insecure, I think it's a guilt thing.

We can all...