Originally Posted by
carrie19084
yeah...i understand what ur sayin....trying to make sense of his siituation...my problems dont matter rite now and i will seek help...but thats worrying for myself caus the reality of it is there isnt anythin i could of possibly done to make him think that ......
1. I don't think you do understand
2. Making sense of his situation won't help in the long run
3. Your problem very much matters; seeking help is not good to delay
4. And the reality very much might be that your problem is exactly what is the thing that made him think differently about you, especially if you hid it from him and then suddenly revealed it one day.
See now?
If not, here is the other translation: if you showed your insecurities suddenly to him, and in a way that looked a bit crazy or hysterical, he could easily be so freaked, he is now asking himself how he lets the psychowoman down easy -- and I can tell you that isn't a fun place to be for a guy.
Give him space. It is your only chance to prove you aren't "psychowoman". If he does come back, you were lucky and you still need help. If he doesn't come back, you still need help. Either that or get more effective at covering it up and lying to yourself. Frankly, even that didn't work for me.