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    #261

    Apr 23, 2007, 04:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Skell
    Scary. YES. Thats a good word to use Allheart. Sometimes i do feel scared with the way people come at you. And not scared for myself. Scared at what they are capable of.

    LOL :D - I know you didn't mean that as a funny, but I did laugh and I do know what you mean.

    What I think happens is, and this sounds so awful, but a negativity overtakes them and it's more like venum coming out than a love that would bring people closer together and closer to God.

    I am not referring this to any thread here, just life in general. I have sadly seen it happen a time or two. Where very good meaning people, just loose their way, and a very negative force takes over.

    I am not a Saint, I have fallen so many times and still do. I have so much work to do on my spiritual growth I should actually be working on it this very minute. So please, I do not want to come off as Ms. Goody Allheart ( but I do like the sound of it ) hee, hee. Trust me, I have a ways to go.
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    #262

    Apr 23, 2007, 04:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Retrotia
    It isn't about feeling any love. Unconditional love is about putting someone else's interest ahead of our own no matter what they do. I don't find that to be the situation when Jesus tells us to love one another. I believe that we love one another conditionally.
    Loving one's neighbor means not doing him any harm.
    So you can stop with the mushy love stuff- bc it is not sincere-and looks like the only thing to do is to try to like one another.
    I appreciate your response Speedball. I have studied other religions like you & I have found the one I love. It wasn't bc of studying it either- but rather bc I had a Burning Bush experience or God moment-similar to St. Paul in the New Testament.
    I'm sorry you didn't have a similar experience, but I am not proselytizing-it's called evangelizing-if I do any of those at all.
    Basically, this is a touchy subject for all I conclude. I'm not offended. I pasted some links & responded to an O.P. that had no religion to call her own. I tried to deter her from taking Islam.

    Oh no! she has another link she thinks I might be interested in. Peace be with you.
    Do all religions lead to God

    Sorry, I wouldn't say I disagree with you, I am just speaking up Retrotia. We are to absolutely love one another unconditionally. At least that is what I believe. As brother and sister. Retrotia, you would not be the first one in my life to question my sincerety, but gosh darn it, it stings me every darn time. On an earlier thread, when I was saying "it's about the love" I will admit, I was being playful, but knowing it is truthful. At least my truth. The only thing we have to do with each other, is to love each other. I don't mean mushy gushy, here's a box of choclalte kind of love. I mean a love that can only be driven, by loving God. I mean a love, for instatnce, when someone hurts me, I can put that hurt aside, and love them. Retrorita, you can believe me or not, but it is my truth.
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    Apr 23, 2007, 06:10 PM
    It isn't about feeling any love. Unconditional love is about putting someone else's interest ahead of our own no matter what they do.
    Unconditional love is about loving someone despite what they do
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    Apr 23, 2007, 06:13 PM
    I tried to deter her from taking Islam.
    Your prejudice is showing. And its not very pretty. Can't you just evangelise what you believe, and leave the rest to her good sense?
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    #265

    Apr 23, 2007, 06:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Allheart
    Hate to break it to everyone, but God loves us all. No such thing as your God, my God, his God, to me, and only my opinion, there is a God, and He is loving, kind and merciful. He loves all of us no matter what religion is stamped on our forehead.

    To me, all religions are like different roads that lead to God.

    Nothing is more scarey to me, than someone getting so angry and dare I say unkind, when they are trying to "convince" someone that their God is the only God and their religion is The religion. Not something I would want to sign up to.

    I respect all faiths and I know that all faiths believe and worship God.

    Others will be more apt to hear what you have to say, when it is done in a loving way. I am just so amazed at the level of upset that is demonstrated in some of these threads, when the subject matter is about God and religion.
    Very well said. It makes the point I have been trying to make more eloquently
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    Apr 23, 2007, 06:56 PM
    I have been following this thread very carefully. I normally don't like to get involved in this kind of stuff, but it happens to be posted in the Members Forum, not in Christianity. I think it is important to point out that this thread seems to have been hijacked. There is a teenager who is looking for answers. What is being provided here is an argument. I am very dismayed at this turn of events. This is not a constructive thread but a repeat of what I have seen over and over again on this and other websites. Jesus Christ & Christianity versus any other God & Religion.

    Retro, that link you posted is written by your church. How can we possibly take that as serious evidence of what you say to be true. It is biased, and understandably so, considering the source. I think you need to reread this entire thread. The only person that I see getting truly upset and annoyed is you. I also notice that you, Arcura, Duke, have not answered certain questions posed by ScottGem. If your intention is to defend your position that Jesus Christ is the One and Only God, then it appears to me that those questions should be answered to promote our understanding, if that is what you are trying to accomplish.

    In this last post of yours your anger is truly palpable. For you to suggest that Allheart's "mushy love stuff" is "not sincere", I suggest you look at all of her postings on this website. She is one of the most sincere people I have met here. I have truly never met anyone as decent and kind hearted as she is. She is saddened by any divisiveness. She always tries to find the good in everything and tries to pull everyone together. She and I do not believe in the same God. She is a follower of Jesus Christ. Why is it that we can get along and respect each other's belief systems and you cannot?

    For all of you who have been saved and believe you are going to heaven while the rest of us poor sinners will be condemned to hell, I truly wonder if you know how much hate and anger you spew when you talk. Is your vehement defense of your position an acceptable practice, and in doing such, earns you the rightful place in heaven? Is that to be considered a virtue by your God? I find that so completely contradictory to the teachings of your religion. Love thy neighbor as you would.. Turn the other cheek. What happened to that? I think it would be a lot more beneficial and less hurtful to all, if you just agree that there will be people who will disagree with you, instead of trying to prove your point.

    I think it is important for you to understand that what you are doing here is undermining yourselves with the young person who posted in the first place. Talk about the positives of your religion so that this teenager will have a better understanding about your beliefs.
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    Apr 23, 2007, 07:41 PM
    Well Allheart I believe you in particular are sincere. However being sincere is not the case for some other backstabbers that have the ultimate prejudice against Christians.
    Ruby, does this mean you won't be 1 of the 144,000+ Jews that will believe in Christ in the end time and be saved?
    What I have noticed is there are folks on here who say they don't practice any religion or don't need religion- but the next thing you know, they're on some religion thread just telling the same thing over & over again how much they hate your religion. They will go to great lengths to make sure you & their secular avatar friends get their big butts involved in the fight.
    Why do they even go to the religion threads. If it was to learn or read - then their posts would reflect it?
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    Apr 23, 2007, 08:35 PM
    I am not quite sure who you are referring to Retrotia. It sounds like you are referring to me.

    I have never entered the threads in the Christianity forum and gotten into arguments with people. As a matter of fact, I have never entered any of the threads in the entire Religion forum and gotten into arguments with people.

    The reason I chose to post in the first place was due to your unjustified attack on Allheart's sincerity. Thank you for apologizing to her. The other reason was to point out that this thread is not helping this poster. Do you honestly believe all this back and forth is making this clearer for the poster? Or convincing him to choose to follow your religion?

    If you want to get into arguments or discussions with people about these differences of opinions and/or that you feel that you are being attacked for being Christian, start a thread on it. I just really don't think it is fair for someone else's thread to break down like this.

    What I find very disturbing and feel I must point out because this is entirely of your own making, it appears you are an anti-semite. I noticed the attempts to get NeedKarma to state his religion as well. I never stated that I was Jewish. ScottGem stated he was. I also never stated that I hated your religion. Why are you calling me names like "big butts?" I don't understand the need for name calling here. Putting words into people's mouths and mistranslating what is being said is inexcusable. Where is your logic and reasoning Retro? All I see is anger, defensiveness, cruelty, and accusations.

    Your true nature is showing Retro and it saddens me greatly.
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    #269

    Apr 23, 2007, 09:37 PM
    Allheart,
    You asked if what you said made sense to anyone...
    I does to me. I agree with it.
    Temptation is the nemesis of those who try to practice their faith.
    Peace and kidness.
    Fred (arcura)
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    #270

    Apr 24, 2007, 12:32 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Retrotia
    Well Allheart I believe you in particular are sincere. However being sincere is not the case for some other backstabbers that have the ultimate prejudice against Christians.
    Ruby, does this mean you won't be 1 of the 144,000+ Jews that will believe in Christ in the end time and be saved?
    What I have noticed is there are folks on here who say they don't practice any religion or don't need religion- but the next thing you know, they're on some religion thread just telling the same thing over & over again how much they hate your religion. They will go to great lengths to make sure you & their secular avatar friends get their big butts involved in the fight.
    Why do they even go to the religion threads. If it was to learn or read - then their posts would reflect it?
    Retrotia,

    It doesn't make me feel any better, it wasn't what I was searching for; your validation of my sincerity Retrotia, although I do thank you. I still am just as sad, just as confused and somewhat scared, that a conversation about a loving God, can produce such annimoisty.

    Retrotia, what would have delited me, would have been if you agreed with me, when I stated that we are to love one another, unconditionally. That would have sent my spirits soaring. I say that, so you can have peace in your heart and it would also give me strength in my beleifs, that I am to love my neighbor, truly love them.

    Quote Originally Posted by RubyPitbull

    For all of you who have been saved and believe you are going to heaven while the rest of us poor sinners will be condemned to hell, I truly wonder if you know how much hate and anger you spew when you talk. Is your vehement defense of your position an acceptable practice, and in doing such, earns you the rightful place in heaven? Is that to be considered a virtue by your God? I find that so completely contradictory to the teachings of your religion. Love thy neighbor as you would...., Turn the other cheek. What happened to that? I think it would be a lot more beneficial and less hurtful to all, if you just agree that there will be people who will disagree with you, instead of trying to prove your point.

    I think it is important for you to understand that what you are doing here is undermining yourselves with the young person who posted in the first place. Talk about the positives of your religion so that this teenager will have a better understanding about your beliefs.
    My goodness, could it be said any better than that. Well done Ruby, well done and so very true.
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    #271

    Apr 24, 2007, 01:51 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Retrotia
    What I have noticed is there are folks on here who say they don't practice any religion or don't need religion- but the next thing you know, they're on some religion thread just telling the same thing over & over again how much they hate your religion.
    I believe a Religion thread accommodates all religion discussions including atheism, agnosticism, those who had a faith and lost it, etc... It isn't only about your particular brand of christianity regardless of how much you'd like that to be. I haven't seen any hateful comments about religion (the closest I've seen are the fundamantalists openly condemming other religions than their own), if you do see a hate post please use the Report Inappropriate Post button.
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    #272

    Apr 24, 2007, 05:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman
    The God that I understands requires no submission, but gives me free choice to follow his guidance.
    Your right you do have a choice... except him as Lord and live or deny him and burn. Isn't it great that we have free will :p
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    Apr 24, 2007, 05:56 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by DUKE-OF-URL
    your right you do have a choice... except him as Lord and live or deny him and burn. Isnt it great that we have free will :p
    Sorry but those are not the only choices. If you weren't so bigotted you would realize that.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:17 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ScottGem
    Sorry but those are not the only choices. If you weren't so bigotted you would realize that.
    Im sorry you are right... if you don't except him as Lord then you have many choices on the way down. Heck you can even make a u-turn.

    And I see you have lowerd yourself to name calling:(
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:21 AM
    Duke, you need to stop this. Please. What you are doing is taunting and antagonizing. I truly don't understand it. As I said before, why can't you just agree to disagree and talk about the positives of your religion. You truly are not making a case for conversion to your religion. What you are doing is detrimental to your cause.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:25 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by DUKE-OF-URL
    Im sorry you are right ...if you dont except him as Lord then you have many choices on the way down. heck you can even make a u-turn.

    And I see you have lowerd yourself to name calling:(
    Remind me to stay away from whatever religion you represent. It must not work very well. Or maybe you aren't very good at it. And you do have a choice, and we see what that choice is, but its not to late to make a better one.;)
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by DUKE-OF-URL
    And I see you have lowerd yourself to name calling:(
    No its not name-calling to tell the truth about someone. Someone who is as intolerant about other peoples viewpoints as you seem to be earns the name.

    You can learn a lot from people like Allheart, who has truly understood the message of Christ. That message is one of peace and love and understanding.

    However, as I said in another response, I don't expect to convince you (or some of the others who think you like you). I'm not trying to convince you to believe in god as I do, only to be tolerant of others who may believe differently than you.

    What I do hope, is that the strength and logic of what I and some others have said, will help the undecided see the wisdom of those points. On that note, I think its time to wrap this thread up.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:46 AM
    Due to serious intolerant posting from certain members this thread is now CLOSED.

    If you have a problem with this PM me.

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