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Years later & nothings changed

Asked Jun 27, 2012, 08:03 AM — 26 Answers
Well I met my boyfriend when I was young. We have been together for 5 years and he is my world, although it’s different on his side. See he use to cheat on me 24/7 but every time he got locked up he would NEED and LOVE me and only me. Then he'd get out and not even talk to me.

Well recently he just got out again on June 17th. he was in prison for a year and a half. He didn’t call me or nothing that day. He texted me the following day to let me know he was home. we saw each other that night and he left the following morning NO TEXT NO CALLS for a full week. And he claims he wasn't home yet sucks at Lying!

He claims because how pretty I am he knows I cheated while he was locked up and he wants to have a kid to fully make me his.
I LOVE HIM TO DEATH BUT SO CONFUSED ON WHAT TO DO. HELP?

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Jun 27, 2012, 08:55 AM
Im sure she did. And if she didnt i wouldve got to that with her. No need to point anything out. Get on with your life and give your "oh so great advice" to some one else tu sabes'
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Jun 27, 2012, 08:56 AM
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? My last thread is about having a child and Im scared Im pregnant. As u read this one its about my struggle with him.
IF YOU AINT GIVING ME ADVICE I SUGGEST YOU MOVE ON CAUSE YOU AINT DOING NOTHING HERE.
Having a baby with this man IS related to your relationship with him - you can't understand that?

Sorry but you don't get to dictate who will answer your posts and in what manner. Suggest all you like.
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Jun 27, 2012, 08:57 AM
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Im sure she did. And if she didnt i wouldve got to that with her. No need to point anything out. Get on with your life and give your "oh so great advice" to some one else tu sabes'
One day you will wake up from your love slumber. You will wish you had taken our advice and gotten out of this relationship sooner.

When it comes to finding the love of your life, eventually it is too late. Keep that in mind while you infatuate yourself over this low life.

I wish you the best of luck, I truly do.
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Jun 27, 2012, 08:57 AM
Ive thought about that alot and as you now know i might be prego by him. Which at first LORD I WAS EXCITED but after he stopped hitting me up i started regretting everything. So if i am do you think it will still be right to leave him?
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Jun 27, 2012, 09:00 AM


he is a thug and this is the way men who are in and out of prison are. when they are in prison they will say things like that to you ( and most likely two or three others) so you will send them store money.

And yes the day or two they get out they have not had sex with a women for a while and you are a lot cheaper than hiring a hooker.

No a tattoo of your name on his neck merely means it was something at one point and it costs too much to change it.

you are being used, He will never change, this is how it will be in 10 years or 20 years. Hewill be in and out of jail, you will have 3 or 4 kids by him ( and maybe another guy or two depending on how long he is in, and he will do the same to you when he gets out
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Jun 27, 2012, 09:01 AM
I think he's already left you so this is all lip service.

How do you support yourself? How do you intend to support yourself and the baby? You need a dose of reality.

If you are "prego" you need to make some tough decisions - and soon!
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Jun 27, 2012, 09:01 AM
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Ive thought about that alot and as you now know i might be prego by him. Which at first LORD I WAS EXCITED but after he stopped hitting me up i started regretting everything. So if i am do you think it will still be right to leave him?
A lot of people don't understand that children don't neccessarily tie you down to someone. If you do end up being pregnant, have him pay child support, and raise that kid. You don't have to do it alone, there are men out there who will love you and your child no matter the father, first things first though. Get over him, and get away from him.

And please respect the people who post to you. Everyone here volunteers their time to help. They may seem like that are nagging and being rude, but we here believe in a little tough love sometimes we do it because we care.
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Jun 27, 2012, 09:25 AM
Ok well first off Im on parole. I am working on finishing up on getting a GED. And as you say he's a "thug" i take that offensive i have tattoos on my face and my body & been in and out of being ecorserated since i was 12. i have two jobs and i pay for all my stuff.
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Jun 27, 2012, 09:40 AM
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Ok well first off Im on parole. I am working on finishing up on getting a GED. And as you say he's a "thug" i take that offensive i have tattoos on my face and my body & been in and out of being ecorserated since i was 12. i have two jobs and i pay for all my stuff.
Good - hopefully you can pay for stuff for both you and your child.

A thug is a common criminal. That doesn't describe him?

After you get your GED what do you intend to do next? More school? Another job?

Is your criminal history in any way related to this relationship?

In my area face tats are gang signs - I don't know where you are. I also don't know what "ecorserated" means. Incarcerated?
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Jun 27, 2012, 09:54 AM
See financially i have no worries. Now you really starting to piss me off do you know me? Na you DONT do you know my boyfriend? No you DONT do you know my life? No you DONT. Now i DONT plan on any school after that why would i get a GED to go back to school? stupid. And Yea gangs was my whole life i have 187 across my cheek i got my eye brows tattooed i got 'try me' tatted on my eye lids and westside across my neck. do you got a issue with that? Does my appreance and life style goin to effect the way i raise my child. No it isnt so FALL THE BACK and as for my bf he has his hood all over his face and body DONT CHANGE THE FACT THAT HE CAN BE A GOOD DAD.
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