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Old Aug 12, 2007, 05:18 AM
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would it be selfish?

Ok, here's the thing. My girlfriend and I have been going out close to a year. (9 months and twelve days to be exact.) and today is my birthday (I turn 22) and I was wondering if I hypothetically if I were to ask her if she were ready to have sex, would that make me look like "one of those guys" you know, the selfish kind, the kind who only want sex, and such?

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Old Aug 12, 2007, 05:21 AM   #2  
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Considering it's been almost a year, probably not.
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Being a gal, I would probably surprise you on your birthday. So sit back, relax and see how your day turns out.

Happy Birthday!

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Let it happen, when it happens. Birthday's have nothing to do with it.
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Old Aug 12, 2007, 01:01 PM   #5  
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yeah i'm sure it will happen soon, just let her do it when she wants to. how old is she?
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Old Aug 12, 2007, 01:05 PM   #6  
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if you talk her into it and she gives in and does it just b/c you want her too. trust me- she'll regret it and she'll hold it against you. she may not be angry with you or whatever, but it will hurt inside. that is something a girl wants to be perfect- especially if she has been waiting and keeping her virginity for so long. don't ask her to do it just because it's your birthday.

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Lenovo disagrees: she isn't a virgin. We havn't had sex, she did with her ex.
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Old Aug 12, 2007, 01:11 PM   #7  
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I would just make the move and see what happens. Not because It's your birthday but because you love her and want to be close to her.
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I think, it's not selfish for u to ask, but... don't ask.
Be... be romantic as hell, take it slow, seduce her, and if she gives in, she does, if not, well, then it'll happen in its own time.
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I think, it's not selfish for u to ask, but... don't ask.
Be... be romantic as hell, take it slow, seduce her, and if she gives in, she does, if not, well, then it'll happen in its own time.


That's right.

But don't waste too much time,or you''ll become her pal,and she won't even wanna do it with you.
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