Would have been a year tomorrow

Now that’s funny.

[quote=chuff]Now that

Part of your problem is that you have no other experience to draw from, as how to handle this situation. Your point of view is that you gave it all, and she repaid you with leaving, but the truth is you fell deeper than she did, so you hurt more and unless you accept this is over, you will akways be stuck getting over this. As chuff and others have pointed out, time will heal and if you learned anything here, you will handle the next relationship a little differently.

You aren't stupid, but quick to hand out those reddies aren't you?

Get up tomorrow allow yourself to be sad for a moment, shed a tear or two...then go do something that makes you happy (that doesn't involve moping over her) surrond yourself with people that want to be with you. Let your self preservation kick in. You'll make it, and be a stronger guy for the experience.

A big part of the problem + she was less emotionally invested than you thought she was in this relationship as tal has pointed out.

This is all part of life, living and learning and you will do just that.

Thanks guys, the day is almost over and its only now at 8.42pm that I decided to cry, id been holding it in all day.

I did what you guys told me, I focused on getting my car cleaned up and jus worked on that for a good part of the day.

I have to say though that it wasn't a one sided relationship, I know it sounds like that but then again you are only getting the one side of the story. She was so sweet to me and knew how to make me happy. We were good together and it was her that was first to say she loved me.

Im coming to terms that it is over, its hard to know that the girl who once felt so much now wants to be with someone else, be it today or tomorrow that's the fact of the matter.

It just gets me how she couldn't dump a guy that really treated her bad many times, he dumped her. I make a mistake that I repeatidly tell her I regret and sorry for and she kicks me to the kerb. She even grew more and more distant and never once give me a reason for the coldness.

I guess what I'm trying to ask is, if you really loved someone then surly deep down you would try and do anything to keep that person in your life.

Im just amazed how someone can go from being to nice to being so cold as to ignore me at a junction when I waved, I mean why would someone act like that for no real reason, I just wish she would give me an answer for that and then I could move on.

It hurts not knowing why.

The answers are already there for you.

Its simple and I hate to bring reality home but she did not/does not not love you.

She does not love you.

She does not love you.

You do know why.

Well, I had to spread it but Geoff is 100%, dead on correct. The answers are there and quite honestly it's clear as day to the rest of us who have no emotional attachment. She did not love you. She did not care for you. She did not like you. You can hold onto all the good times that you perceive and what she told you but she did not care one damn bit. And again, the answers are already there.