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Old Feb 15, 2009, 08:15 AM
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worst valentines day ever.read on
ok ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months and we had valentines day planned for the last week (dinner&movie etc.). Then on Friday he calls me and says oh i cant do anything on V-day because my work just called to see if i can work and i said yes.... But we can do breakfast. So already i was upset but i agreed ok breakfast..

(warning: ( i did tell him how much i like valentines day)

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Valentines Day..

He picks me up for breakfast, complains about the restaurant then we eat.. The bill comes.. he tells me he wants me to pay because he bought MacDonalds ( the last time we hungout) (MACDONALDS ) anyways to avoid an arguement i paid the bill on V-day!! then he drives me home and says happpy valentines day.

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THATS ALL!!!! no rose no card ,NADA!! ive been ignoring his calls lately but he thinks everything is alll fine and wants to hangout tonight.. you think i should dump his $%#$ ?? lol

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Old Feb 15, 2009, 08:20 AM   #2  
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How many times do you need to be treated poorly before you get a clue? The first time, you're a victim, after that you volunteer and permit it.
Dump him.
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Don't put up with cheap tacky behavior. For sure don't get hopes up for this loser.

These are the types of people that you disappear from their lives and let them wonder "what happened"?
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lol i know whats a good way to dump him?? because he obviously is oblivious to the situation lol
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There is no good way to dump. Do you want to be rid of him, or do you just want to get back at him? Trying to get back at someone like that does no good. He probably does not even care.
He is clueless because you have always permitted him to treat you like crap.
Call him and tell him that you no longer want to see him and then be done with it.
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ok thank you
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You disappear from their lives, and let them wonder "what happened"?
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DUMP him!! A.S.A.P If he ask, tell him that he's cheap for not treating you well.
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Wow... yeah, I have to agree with everyone, dump him. It's not even a matter of being cheap, he's just an inconsiderate jerk.

I'd tell him why you are dumping him, though, there are people that don't understand that their behavior is not acceptable. Not saying it's your job to "fix" him, but in the future he may change and reflect on this experience and learn from it.
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i dumped him earlier today and told him that ... we think of relationships differently and i like a guy who shows affection and is romantic. and he isnt that
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