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Old Mar 18, 2008, 01:40 PM
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was i in the worng?

i like to think that im a good wife. i dont really care if he looks at porn as long as i dont see it, and that its that time of the month. i told him as long as he looks but not 2 tuch that is ok

well i found a missed call on his phone on 3/11, and he told me that he didnt know who it was. well i called the number and a WOMAN picked up. well he still claimed to not know who it was. well i did some looking around on the phone bill and found out that the number is an oklahoma number. ( he grow up in TX) and that the number belonged to his EX.

see i dont care that he has been talking to his ex and her brother. her brother and him are good friends, thats fine. and talking to her i dont care. i know that he does not really like her, and that he will never go back to her, the thing that hurt is that he lied about it

and we had a VERY big fight about the whole thing. and he told me that he wanted to call it quits, becuase i will not trust him.

was i in the worng looking up the number. i just dont know what to do.

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Old Mar 19, 2008, 08:51 AM   #11  
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okay then most woman but hollylovesbrandon do check up on there men. Don't get all offended. I didn't say every woman I said most apparently this doesn't apply to you. Good Day!

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Old Mar 19, 2008, 09:53 AM   #12  
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Darn! Now I'm PO'd, as my wife doesn't care enough, to check up on me! Even worse, she doesn't try to find out what sites I visit!! Is this fair, or should I go NC!
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That is not fair at all! NC until she starts tapping your cell phone, calling you every 5 mins, calls your friends and family if you don't answer. And when you are home, you were one of those dog shock collars because god forbid you step off the lawn!!
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Just screwed up, and broke NC. Kids at work, and grandkids at school, she walks around naked, and wants to know if I wanted lunch? Can i start NC again? Will it count against me? Should i take out the garbage as she suggests? Will my manhood survive??? Help!!!!!!!!!!!
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Stay strong! No garbage duty man, keep your dignity! If you like being kept as a yo-yo doing whatever she wants then be my guest and continue being a wuss. But, on the other hand, if she made the lunch for you while naked, we can make an exception on that
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I wussed in the worst way, took out the garbage, had lunch, and her, but she wouldn't even look at the cell phone. I feel so used. Should I help with the dishes, or stand my ground? or should I leave this thread alone and stop hijacking? I am so confused, and don't know what to do? Is the wife right, should I just shut up, and be cute?????
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Put your cell phone right near her with a text open from another number she doesn't know saying something like "looking forward to seeing you tonight honey" She should definately look! Then, stand your ground, no dishes!
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lol seriously a lot of them do check something weather it be a wallet, the pockets of your jeans, under your bed, a vehicle, or your cell phone. Some however can't admit to it but yes a majority of woman do it.
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man, this post went incredibly down hill with the narrowmindedness. i think i should leave.

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