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i like to think that im a good wife. i dont really care if he looks at porn as long as i dont see it, and that its that time of the month. i told him as long as he looks but not 2 tuch that is ok
well i found a missed call on his phone on 3/11, and he told me that he didnt know who it was. well i called the number and a WOMAN picked up. well he still claimed to not know who it was. well i did some looking around on the phone bill and found out that the number is an oklahoma number. ( he grow up in TX) and that the number belonged to his EX.
see i dont care that he has been talking to his ex and her brother. her brother and him are good friends, thats fine. and talking to her i dont care. i know that he does not really like her, and that he will never go back to her, the thing that hurt is that he lied about it
and we had a VERY big fight about the whole thing. and he told me that he wanted to call it quits, becuase i will not trust him.
was i in the worng looking up the number. i just dont know what to do.
okay then most woman but hollylovesbrandon do check up on there men. Don't get all offended. I didn't say every woman I said most apparently this doesn't apply to you. Good Day!
Darn! Now I'm PO'd, as my wife doesn't care enough, to check up on me! Even worse, she doesn't try to find out what sites I visit!! Is this fair, or should I go NC!
That is not fair at all! NC until she starts tapping your cell phone, calling you every 5 mins, calls your friends and family if you don't answer. And when you are home, you were one of those dog shock collars because god forbid you step off the lawn!!
Just screwed up, and broke NC. Kids at work, and grandkids at school, she walks around naked, and wants to know if I wanted lunch? Can i start NC again? Will it count against me? Should i take out the garbage as she suggests? Will my manhood survive??? Help!!!!!!!!!!!
Stay strong! No garbage duty man, keep your dignity! If you like being kept as a yo-yo doing whatever she wants then be my guest and continue being a wuss. But, on the other hand, if she made the lunch for you while naked, we can make an exception on that
I wussed in the worst way, took out the garbage, had lunch, and her, but she wouldn't even look at the cell phone. I feel so used. Should I help with the dishes, or stand my ground? or should I leave this thread alone and stop hijacking? I am so confused, and don't know what to do? Is the wife right, should I just shut up, and be cute?????
Put your cell phone right near her with a text open from another number she doesn't know saying something like "looking forward to seeing you tonight honey" She should definately look! Then, stand your ground, no dishes!
lol seriously a lot of them do check something weather it be a wallet, the pockets of your jeans, under your bed, a vehicle, or your cell phone. Some however can't admit to it but yes a majority of woman do it.