Well, I was with this girl for a while. I love her and she said she loves me. We we're so happy together and never had a single fight or argument. Disagreements yes, but we are both laid back and never really fought over anything. She told me that she loves me more than anything and that I am one of the best things that ever happened to her and my support is what helps her do all the things she does. She is very involved with 4-H and such. So far so good, right? Then out of nowhere she tells me that she thinks we are too different and that I'll never be able to understand how she is about 4-H and her animals and everything. I have been nothing but supportive but she says she wants someone like her and that I didn't do anything wrong. I don't understand how I could be the best thing in her life and her to be in love with me and then just end it in a day. My hope is that if I give her space and time she will realize what she lost and miss me and take me back. I love her more than anything and I'm not ready to move on yet. I want to wait and ask her if she misses me in a month or two an if she doesn't, I'll force myself to get over it. So my question is, if I did all that for her and now I'm gone, will she miss me? Will she take me back? Or am I just giving myself false hope? I know the odds are against me, but I need to try before I give up on us.

How old are you? I was in 4-H and that was in my teens.

I'm 19 and she is 18.

You both are very young and emotions change with the wind. Trust me, if you haven't talked to her in 2 months, you both will have moved on. There is going to be a lot going on within your young lives. I don't know if she'll come crawling back to you, but wasting your life trying living for that moment she does is... well it's a waste. You moving on is not about giving up, it is about accepting the way she feels and doing something with your life to cope with those feelings.