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Old May 8, 2008, 10:08 PM
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will my first love ever come back?

I Was With My First Love For 3 And A Half Years Since I Was Thirteen I No He Really Loves Me He Tells Me He Loves Me The Most In The World But He Act Like I Dont Exist What Do I Do? Will He Ever Come Back To Me? Help Somebody

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Old May 8, 2008, 10:49 PM   #2  
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If he is treating you badly like that I would suggest moving on. It's hard, I know. But you don't want someone like that. You deserve better.
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Old May 8, 2008, 11:18 PM   #3  
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He won't come back. People change, grow up and move on. Nothing stays the same.

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ChihuahuaMomma agrees: As harsh as that is, it's true. Young love hardly EVER stands the test of time. You are changing beings. You are children. You grow up, out, and away from things that previously intrigued you.
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Old May 8, 2008, 11:54 PM   #4  
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I doubt he will come back if he is treating you like you don't exist, honey it's time for someone to treat you like a godess! It may take some time, but it's all worth it in the end.
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Old May 9, 2008, 10:01 AM   #5  
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It's a funny thing... first loves...

When those relationships end, it can feel like the whole world is caving in on you. You may always have a special place in your heart for the guy, but I can guarantee that if you run in to him in lets say.... 5 years... those butterflies that you got with him will probably be gone.

He has probably moved on and in all reality probably doesn't give much thought to what your relationship was.

Letting go is a HARD thing to do... I'm not telling you to forget him... No... you want to hold on to the memories of what it was you felt with him at times. BUT NEVER EVER compare another relationship from here on out with what you had with him.

You are gonna find someone that melts your heart just as much as he did but in a slightly different way... Just remember that.

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I Was With My First Love For 3 And A Half Years Since I Was Thirteen
You have learned a life lesson, love is sweet, and heartbreak sucks. He has moved on, and so must you. Sorry for your loss.
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Old May 10, 2008, 12:16 PM   #7  
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I know its easy to say move on but it's really hard to do the action. Try moving on and dating other guys. you deserve way better for any one to be treating u wrong.. If he's treating u wrong he doesn't love u because u don't mistreat the one u love. I was in ur shoes couple of years ago and my first love was not that great of a guy. I decided to leave him and forget about him. Guess what? he is the one begging me and asking me to get back now and I just don't see him like that anymore.
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Yes, first loves are often the hardest to get over, but seldom does anyone ever stay with a first love, all of us have been there. As we grow up and mature, we all change, sometimes we see or look for different things, goals and ideas.

In a few years it will be either only either a good or bad memory

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Old May 10, 2008, 05:17 PM   #9  
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will my ex ever come back to me?

I Was With My First Love For Almost 4 Years We Was Very Close But Then My Brother Start Going Out With Some Girl And I Allways Stayed In The House So 1 Day My Brother Tell Me Do I Want To Go With Him To His Girlfriend Block So I Said Okay Then I Met Her Brother He Liked Me So Much And I Guess I Likted That Feeling Cause I Was With 1 Boy For Allmost 4 Years So Then I Was Trying To Hook Him Up With The Home Girl And Then We Start Talking On Da Phone So We Was Cool But Of Course Boyfriend Of 3 Years And A Half That I Was Doing Him Grimmy But Me And My Bestfriend Got Closer Not Sexually But Emotionally But I Love My Boyfriend With All Myy Heart Hes My World So 1 Day I Ask My Boyfriend Do He Talk To Girls On The Phone He Said Yeah I Said How Many He Said Like 3 Or 4 I Siad Thats Not Going To Work And Hung Up On Him Then I Try To Call Him Right Back And Then He Never Answered The Phone So Then The Next Day He Called Me And Said We Dont Go Out Nomore You Broke Up With Me Yesterday I Said No I Didnt Then He Said Yes You Did So I Was Trying My Hardest To Go Out With Him But Ever Since I Was Talking To My Bestfriend He Thought I Was Scandlous So Then I Found He Had A Girlfriend He Calls My Mom And Tells My Mom That He Just Broke Up With Cause He Not Feelin Her So He Start Hanging Out With My Mom And Cuzzin Everyday So I Was Going With Them Shoppin For He Would Relize He Missed Me 1 Day We Was In Carls Jr. And He Said Do You Want Me To Spend The Night I Said Yes So Then He Start Coming Bacc To My House We Was Making Love Everyday But He Said We Cant Just Jump Right Into It Caus Ewe Gon Jump Into Right Were We Left Off So I Was Trying To Be Cool But Then My Bestfriend Was Having Problems At His House So He Came To Live With Me My Ex Boyfriend Allways Was Here Even Tho My Bestie Was Here Then 1 Day My Ex Boyfriend Said Something And Got Me Mad And He Socked Me On My Arm So I Kicked Him In His But And He Couldnt Walk For Like 3 Days So He Got Mad And Left That Was His Excuse For Him Not Comming To My House Nomore But I No It Was Because My Bestie Lived With Us So Then His Mama Dont Make It No Better Tell Him All Kinds Of (you No She Trying To With U Because Yall Dont Go Out Nomore) Thats Bull On Everything But Now He Still Hang Out With His Girlfriend He Told Me That She Is His Bestfrind But I Think He Told Me That Because I Have A Boy Bestfriend But I Dont No Hes Bestfrinds With My Cuzzin And My Cuzzin Told Me That He Moved A Couple Of Days Ago To Saint Louise I Dont Realy Think He Moved So My Bestfrined Is In Love With Me He Wants To Be With But I Dont No What I Want Anymore I Mean I Want My Ex Back But He Dont Really Talk To Me Only On Myspace Do U Think That Hes Just Hurt Or He Really Doent Care For Me Anymore Somebody Help Me I Dont No What To Do
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Old May 10, 2008, 05:55 PM   #10  
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you do know they make periods and commas Also every word does not start with a capital letter. Your lack of puncation makes your post almost impossible to read.

Also this is not a place for text talk, please edit your post to make it readable.
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