My ex broke up with me 11 days ago. That day I told him he has my mom's DVD and few insignificant things. I asked him if he could drop it off at my desk the next morning at work. He agreed and said that I had his oil pan. The next day I got to work and the DVD was not waiting for me. I thought maybe he forgot. I had no contact with him for a week. Still no DVD. I thought maybe he didn't want confrontation, but there were many days and many ways he could have given it to me without seeing me. I saw him briefly after work 7 days after the break up because I wanted to give him a letter. He was nice to me, and he mentioned the fact that his friend keeps trying to get him a job 2 hours away. (The same job he said he wouldn't take because of me.) I told him to go for it and was all nice. He gave me a crappy excuse why he wouldn't take it, then he got his keys out and acted like he was getting ready to leave. He never mentioned my stuff. And I was told by a few people to let him talk to me about the stuff. That I shouldn't be asking him.

I'm just really confused...

Why isn't he giving it back? And no, I don't believe he forgot. And if he doesn't want confrontation he could drop it off without seeing me...

What's up?