Why wont my ex girlfriend talk to me

chickie543 · Mar 8, 2010, 06:10 PM

Leave her alone. I know it hurts, but she isn't replying because she just doesn't want to. You need to move on. Maybe all she knows is how to be your girlfriend, not an ex-girlfriend or a "friend". Keep yourself busy and soon you won't even think about her. Best of luck.

amicon · Mar 9, 2010, 12:21 AM

Whatever her reasons are,leave it be and continue moving on with your own life.
The past is the past,live in the present.

Larken85 · Mar 9, 2010, 12:23 AM

I totally agree with last posts. She is not into talking right now and she has gone no contact. Means no matter what you do it'll be impossible to get through to her. You aren't interested in getting back together and I'm sure that's what she thinks will happen if she talks to you so just leave her be. She is trying to heal and you need to heal as well. Eventually you will find some closure.

artlady · Mar 9, 2010, 03:48 AM

Maybe she is doing it because it is easier to not be friends with you right now.
Some people close a door and it stays shut forever.
Bottom line,you need to respect her wishes and let it go so that you can start living in the present and enjoying your life.

Romefalls19 · Mar 9, 2010, 05:05 AM

For whatever reason she doesn't want to talk to you, so leave it at that

Sledsik · Mar 9, 2010, 05:59 AM

Thanks for the input everyone. I guess its just been hard to accept the facts. What I don't get is that she left me a message 2 months ago saying how I was the best boyfriend I coulda been to anybody and that she said shell always be there to talk to. Something just doesn't add up. I'm getting tired of thinking bout her everyday but don't know how to shut it off..

Imabadman · Mar 9, 2010, 06:01 AM

I can only speculate to what reasons she has but as the others say you need to back off and leave her alone. Realise that the more you push it right now the farther you push her away.

hungtoronto · Mar 9, 2010, 06:09 AM

Sledsik,

Breakup are tough for both the dumper and dumpee. I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago so I can give you my perspective. She doesn't want to talk to you part of the reason could be that she doesn't want to bring back the feeling she had for you. Maybe there are trouble in your relationship that you are not aware of.

The way I think about it is if I started talking to my ex and be friend then it would cause me more uneccesaray pain. It's better for you to leave her alone and if she decided she want to talk to you she will.

I wish · Mar 9, 2010, 06:41 AM

Actions speak louder than words. Her actions clearly show that she's not longer interested, that's all you really need to know.

Don't need to beat yourself up about it by figuring out the reasoning. It's completely unnecessary.

Spend your time doing something else, something positive for yourself. Hang out with friends. Keep yourself distracted so that you don't have to sort out the facts.

Why wont my ex girlfriend talk to me

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