Why should I be myself when I am with girls ??? I am a naturally nice and quiet kid. I am that nice guy...not the bad boy. Seems like girls don't like these things anyways so why should I bother ????

Altenweg

If you want to meet someone by being fake then that's your choice.

It's hard to keep up a lie, the truth usually comes out. It's better to be yourself.

Would you really want someone to like you because of what you pretend to be?

Wondergirl

Why be yourself? because that is how you attract a girl who will be right for you. It's the messed-up, controlling girls who need a "bad boy" to reform.

friend4u178

Simply because then you'll attract someone who likes you for who you are , not someone that you'll have to keep up an act for.

jmjoseph

Why be yourself? Because that's who you are. Do you want to be known as Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Jacka$$ ?

If you are nice, continue to be nice. One day, you will meet someone nice like you. If you play stupid games, you will attract the wrong type. I know you think that women are attracted to the "bad boy" type, but they don't marry them that often. They'll go for someone who will treat them right.

123skyscraper

nice guys are the ones girls want to marry and bring home to their parents.

bad guys are the ones girls date and attempt to change, but cannot change, and eventually break up. these guys are only good at the beginning of the relationship, where they sometimes put on a show and pretend to be someone they are not in order to attract the girl. after they get the girl they do not treat her right and the relationship ends.

quite simple. be yourself and find someone who loves you for you!