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Why is she still so angry

Asked Aug 14, 2008, 01:10 PM — 16 Answers
Ok so the mother of my son and I broke up a little bit over a year ago. She has done nothing but try and hurt me at every turn. She cheated on me with this old guy who she then got married too 5 months later. She is consistantly trying to make thigns difficult for me, she hates me even though she is the one who did something wrong and is still currently doing things. I recently found out her new husband treats her like crap,

" Your is a 7 but if you work a bit harder it could be a 10"
Your not preety enough,
In a nut shell he puts her down. I don't care how he treats her persay but she is trying to move my son to go live with this man I don't, and never thought even more so now that it isn't a good environment for my little guy.

I want to know ladies, If you are the one who cheated, and you are the one who is trying to take my son across the country to be with a man you have only known 5 months now a year, why does she still hate me? I just want to be civil. I have not spoken to her once since we split. I go threw her parents to see my son.

She asked people who I'm dating, yet she is married. She just found out that I know how her husband treats her and its like she hates me even more?


How can I get threw to this girl and let her know, listen it is ok we didn't work out, but we have a child that needs us both.

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Aug 14, 2008, 01:13 PM
Go to court and file a restriction.
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Aug 14, 2008, 01:13 PM
I meant restraining order.
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Aug 14, 2008, 01:14 PM
I would be less concerned as to why she hates you and more concerned about getting a court order to stop her from taking your son across the country. A case like this was just settled in NJ, it took 2 years but ultimately the ex-wife was not allowed to move to Japan with her new husband unless she left their son with her father
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Aug 14, 2008, 01:22 PM
I'm in court right now... Awaiting the answer of her leaving with myson.
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Aug 15, 2008, 01:18 PM
Why would she be so angry though.. Some people say it is cause she still cares, I just want to be civil with her. How can I get threw to her.
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Aug 15, 2008, 01:20 PM
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why would she be so angry though.. Some people say it is cause she still cares, I just want to be civil with her. How can I get threw to her.

You can't get threw her thick skull. You should just live your life.
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Aug 15, 2008, 04:15 PM


That's why your not together, you can't understand her. She is probably miserable, and takes it out on you.
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Aug 15, 2008, 09:25 PM
Ahh Tal how are you.

As for hpjn I am just living my life. Why I care if she hates me. I want my son to have to parents that can work together to benifit our son.

If she hates me I will see my son less. She has all the control..she uses our son as apawn it disgust me.
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Aug 15, 2008, 09:32 PM
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Ahh Tal how are you.

As for hpjn I am just living my life. Why I care if she hates me. I want my son to have to parents that can work together to benifit our son.

If she hates me I will see my son less. She has all the control..she uses our son as apawn it disgust me.

Go for a new trial and get the child to speak his/her mind?
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