So, I'm 27 and the longest relationship I have ever had is 3 months. I realize the reason I havn't had many girlfriends is because I'm shy initially and also I'm stupidly picky. But recently I have found girls that I really like but it goes a few months and then bam, its over. I can't figure out what's wrong with me. It seems like when things get hard they just want to bail. Can't we work though hard times? Why do they just give up on me?

educatedhorse_2005

Dating the wrong kind of girls.
Maybe it wasn't meant to be.
Could be many things.
Keep trying when the rght one comes along it will work.

31pumpkin

Why should things get hard in a 3 month old relationship? You need to give more info about "things get hard" aspect. How do you know that is why they bailed? How can we tell?

J_9

Please elaborate, the more information you give, the better to answer you my dear.

Krs

J_9 is right, to help you further we need more information.

But from experience i learnt that when you dont look or search for a gf or a relatiosnhip it suddently just appears infront you.

talaniman

Its either something you do or the type of female you choose. Either way more details are needed for any opinion to be formed.

Wildcat21

I think your missing out on her test. You answer the questions wrong.

Learn to answer those tough questions with a question.

Wildcat21

couple sites to help you.

www.doubleyourdating.com

www.askmen.com - read every article on dating and relationships. BUY Doc Love's book.

DJ 'H'

You need to remember to be mysterious. An element of mystery leaves excitement for her to want to find out more about you. Let too much out at once, the spark dies and the excitment disappears.

Wildcat21

YES!!! DJ H!!! You hit on the head - perfect.