Why lesbian people change toward straight girl?

JudyKayTee · May 25, 2012, 01:01 PM

It seems she's made her feelings very clear - she intends to marry her girlfriend. I don't think you fit into her life any longer.

Friendships begin, end, falter, become strong again - and some never recover.

I'd leave her alone.

WisperWill70 · May 25, 2012, 01:04 PM

if she's met someone else this is good and a reasonable reason to disconnect from you as she gets involved in other things. She may say she wants your "friendship" because that's better than nothing at all but this still doesn't change the fact that you have different feelings for each other and hence, she doesn't feel friendship only needs/wants you can't fulfill. Though it's painful to lose any friend --- this one may not have been meant to be if it wasn't truly BOTH of you on the same page about being friends.

Also I didn't understand your English.... (so this may be a misunderstanding) there should be no reason for you to encourage her to be a straight or bi-girl to be your friend...
let it go.

JudyKayTee · May 25, 2012, 01:20 PM

I also don't see how the other person being Lesbian has anything to do with anything. That's offensive and would be no less offensive if any other group were in the title.

She's a lesbian. She doesn't want to be your friend. It would be no different if she were from Mars and didn't want to be your friend. Who she is has nothing to do with this.

talaniman · May 25, 2012, 03:40 PM

People come and go thru our lives often, some stay longer than others, but its understandable for some one to cut contact when their dreams of sex and romance has fallen short, and they have to regroup.

Healing requires some distance between the cause of emotional pain, and this is true of all of us, no matter gender, or sexual preference. Or religious affiliations. Friendships, especially on line, or long distance ones, are often interrupted by closer, more personal options for face to face romance.

I wouldn't dwell on your feeling distant from her, as it likely will happen again with others. Just let go and focus on what you do with your own life, because she is the only one who can explain her actions. Who knows maybe in the future you can clear this up face to face, or whatever.

rose wilting · May 26, 2012, 02:38 AM

i know what u r saying it is true , but when i am go away from her she send me short msg like ( u r still in my thoughts , u r not forgetting ) , but i know we chat with each other maybe just one msg in month or 2 months and she want me in her life cuz she learned a lot from me and back to school .... , but now i feel cold in this friendship and i dont care any more .

JudyKayTee · May 26, 2012, 04:21 AM

Then stop worrying and talking about it and move on.

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