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Old Sep 7, 2009, 05:45 PM
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why is he doing this?
i have been with my boyfriend for some time now, we got engaged, but i found out 3 weeks ago that he slept with my friend 4 months ago,, we fell out but started talking again n sorted things out,,,,, we both decided on a break so he could sort his head out yet all hes been doing is going to town with his friends and things which isn't sorting his head out, and its taking the mickey out of me a bit advise much needed please xx

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Old Sep 7, 2009, 10:25 PM   #11  
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Bad fiance. Alchohol is no excuse, really. They know it can impair their judgement, HE did drugs. And they wanted MORE alcohol? The situation was bound to happen with irresponsible behavior, and he lied about it.
DUMP HIM
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he cheats he drinks he takes drugs-why would you want to stay with this clown?find your selfrespect and leave him.

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we both decided on a break so he cud sort his head out
HOW IS HE THE ONE WHO NEEDS TO SORT THINGS OUT IN HIS HEAD??

He's the one who cheated. He should be down on your knees begging you for forgiveness.

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he sez he loves me and wouldnt do i again but i have no trust in him now
NO TRUST = NO RELATIONSHIP

If he hasn't made sufficient progress in earning your trust back by now, then why are you sticking around? You're just torturing yourself.
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I think you back away from this guy, and get one who can handle a mature adult relationship, like a real man, not some fun lovin' goofy a$$ kid.
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I am just curious, what about the friend he slept with? I agree with the others and kick him to the curb. Dont waste another ounce of energy on him. But where is she now? I mean she slept with your boyfriend while she was living with you and never told you until you moved apart. Please tell me your not still hanging with her.

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amicon agrees: good question-I hope she isnt.
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