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    Apr 21, 2012, 03:03 PM
    Why doesn't my boyfriend show me affection?
    I'm 6 months pregnant, and I'm having issues with him not showing any affection like before and it hurts me so much. I try talking to him, but I feel I'm talking to a wall! I always have to make the moves. Like kiss him cuddle I text him sweet things and all I get is "Ahhh" sometimes I just cry about it because I have no solution I can't make him understand. And when I cry he just doesn't say anything and I feel blown away. And we don't have intercourse I try he comes up with excuses oh its hot, or lets go to the store like really? And lately we been arguing a lot because I found out he watches porn & does what he dose right. And I told he why he watching that crap and not touch me? He gets all mad about it and trust to ignore the situation, I just can't get to him he just doesn't want to have no contact with me. He makes me feel like his cheating which I know his not. But why can't he be straight up and tell me his reason? I feel so sad that I'm to the point of letting go as much as it hurts me.
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    Apr 21, 2012, 06:05 PM
    Is this the first for you both? How old are you both?
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    Apr 21, 2012, 06:49 PM
    Yea, I'm 21 his 30
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    Apr 21, 2012, 07:55 PM
    So you both are very inexperienced and should cut each other some slack. There is enough stress for everybody, and talking calmly is the course of action to take when you have needs.
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