My ex and I selpt together about a week ago.We have been broken up about three months.At first I just took it as sex.But a few days past and I started feeling a little bit more.I asked her what she felt and she said nothing.She said she had no feelings about it at all.Can this really be true?She still anwser all my calls but each time I mention just missing her she seems to cut the conversation short.Can any ladies shed some light on why women sleep with there exes and seem to have no feelings about it after such a long relationship
Because you make yourself available for it. She figures it's a safe bet to know you are still around if she needs someone to make her feel special. Maybe think of yourself more than just a piece of meat, next time she wants to "hang out" say you have plans
When you can make a statement like .At first I just took it as sex.
Must mean you were looking at it the same way. Why suddenly expect her to see it as she should be wanting more just because all of a sudden you want it to be more?
When you can make a statement like .At first I just took it as sex.
Must mean you were looking at it the same way. Why suddenly expect her to see it as she should be wanting more just because all of a sudden you want it to be more?
Thats a good point N0help4u. That's why I believe that it is a bad idea to sleep with an ex. Somewhere along somebody gets too attached and the other doesn't and thats a problem.
Ok, I just read some of your other posts so I got the details of your breakup.
Basically, DON'T ever sleep with an ex....as long as they're still an ex. She's acting this way cause she can. She still has the power over you and she knows it. When she needed a warm body, you were there for her. It has nothing to do with her being a woman. Women and men can do the same thing. Some are just capable of shutting their feelings off when it comes to sex especially since it seems that her feelings have been shut down for a while now whereas yours are still too close to the surface.
Leave it alone and get back to healing yourself and moving on. Good luck! We're here for you. You fell off the horse, but you can get back on.
I'll be honest that I didnt read your previous post, but in my opinion, I dont believe she didnt feel any after that. Women are emotional. She's lying because she doesnt want to go back being with you. How bad is your break up? Did you do something unforgivable?
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