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Old Apr 7, 2008, 12:15 PM
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Letter written during NC from BF.

Guys.. what does this mean? I didnt contact him for 2 weeks then received this email.


This is a bad idea to write to you, but I want you to know where I stand. I am NOT over you, but we both know the way I've been treating you has been wrong of late. And I don't know why I have those on and off feelings. But the fact is I do have them. So it's true I'm not over you, but I want to be. And you should want to get over me as well so we can both move on with our lives happy with the experiences we've had together, not angry at the current situation. I want you to enjoy life to the fullest because you're insanely beautiful(naturally), and you are in for a very big year and need no distractions.

Miss you

Please don't write back

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Old Apr 7, 2008, 12:49 PM   #2  
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basically he's telling you he's been treating you badly and to move on and get over him and just remember the good times and not the bad one at the moment
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it means what it says,i dont think theirs any hidden message to be honest with you

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He is giving you closure, and you should take it, and do what he suggests, move on, because he is.
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It sounds annoying to me. Screams of drama queen. "I love you and you love me, but its over, think of the great things we did". Sounds like a lie. If you love someone, why wouldn't you fight to be with them? He loves you but not in love with you. You should move on, but it will be hard with annoying messages like these to stab at your heart.

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im sure that letter has changed since i first looked at it or is it just me????

has something been deleted??
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No its the same letter... why?
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I'm going to say it's a bit dramatic. Or maybe it's just my perspective this morning.

You said you did no contact for two weeks....yet he has to write you to tell you it's over?? Um...duh Captain McObvious. Talk about rubbing it in your face. I mean seriously, didn't he state what was in the letter during the breakup? Why rehash? Because I think he's just a little ticked off that you went no contact, and he had to get one last dig in. "Oh I miss you, but blah blah blah. Na-na You can't have me. Don't write me back." W.T.F??
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hahahahaha, thats what im saying!!!! He seems more upset right now? Well i told him last night in a email im moving in 5 days ( we live across the hall from each other). He is acting like SUCH AN ! I dont understand why... he left me, so the best thing for us is for me to move to another condo... Now hes being mean.
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hahahahaha, thats what im saying!!!! He seems more upset right now? Well i told him last night in a email im moving in 5 days ( we live across the hall from each other). He is acting like SUCH AN ! I dont understand why... he left me, so the best thing for us is for me to move to another condo... Now hes being mean.
Yeah, I would definitely go back to no contact. I wouldn't bother emailing him anymore, just move out and have a kick a$$ going away party without him.

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