If I catch him in a lie after maken up a whole lie about him logging into his baby moms Facebook page he starts 2 go off on me. Like if I was the 1 that lied. Or he tells me I ask to many question when I'm just trying to have a conversation.

Maybe you need to get a new boyfriend!! Why would you want to be with a lier? Then when he is caught he lying he takes out on you, sound like you need to kick him to curb, so he can go be with his baby's mother. Then she can deal with his lying and bad moods!!

You need someone who will be honest with you and openly communicate. He knows he got caught and obviously has some pride issues. If he's going to be checking up on his ex why not involve you as well? Otherwise it looks shady. Try to let him know how you feel about this and if he has absolutely no regard for you'll have to move on.

I think most people get defensive when caught in a lie. The real question is WHY he feels he has to lie, as opposed to what he lies about.

Tal's right. People that get caught up in a lie always get defensive and then try to place the blame on someone else.

Your post leads me to believe that he lies regularly. Why would you even want to be with someone who lies to you?

You really need to rethink this relationship, as he's not trustworthy.

Your boyfriend is a cheat so dump his he tries to turn around to make you feel at fault it is not your fault so stop playing games with him and find a real man yeah yeah you love him NO NO YOU DON'T you just have not found anyone better yet you will don't give up