I have decided after talking to my boyfriend at least 10 times about him not pleasuring me anymore that I'm done. I have finally reached the point that I don't even want him touching me anymore at all. I am done with sex and he has himself to blame for this. I will no longer give him hand jobs or oral. If I don't get any neither will he. As for everything else he's done to me he'll be getting that treatment back to. I'm not buying him anything anymore I'm not communicating with him anymore. In fact it will be a very cold and loveless relationship. That's obviously what he wants. If he wants any go in the bathroom he have a hand. Or he can go call his little one night stand I don't care anymore. He used to always pleasure me in bed he wouldn't let me near him cause it was about me. And then suddenly it stops and I'll ask him or tell to and he'll always say "I'll get you this weekend." and stupid me I shave all nice for him only to receive NOTHING. I am fed up. He will never change then I'll change for the worst. Lets see how he likes not being touched or kisses or listened to.

Walk away

Wow, I really have to agree, just get out of it. Don't try to show him that you're mad, he doesn't really seem to care. It sounds like he uses you as a free ride. Go find someone that appreciates you (if a girl put a shaved... never mind, I digress... )! The whole thing sounds unhealthy, and it sounds like you have a tendency to be too giving. Look for a man that wants to spoil you and doesn't need or want you to pay for him.
Hope that helped, good luck!

Get out of this relationship. It has to be two-way. And he's being such a jerk. You deserve more than what you ask for and he's simply not giving ANY.