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Asked Feb 4, 2012, 11:46 PM — 3 Answers
Been broken up with a girl for a couple of years now. Seeing someone else.

Finally dropped off the last of her stuff. Left it in the mail and left a message on her phone.

Her response was just "thanks"
Why am I trying to read into it. It's really bugging me. How do I let it go

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Feb 5, 2012, 08:29 AM


What are you reading anything into this at all? You waited a year, and finally handled things so of course you have to deal with all the old feelings being stirred up again. I mean whats to read into a thanks for my stuff back message?

Let it go, and get back to what you are doing NOW in your life. The feelings will fade if you let them.
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Feb 5, 2012, 01:53 PM
Thanks means thank you.
Nothing else.

It's over; it has been over for a long time.

Time to accept that.
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Feb 15, 2012, 09:31 PM
That 'thanks' is nothing more than a polite formality. So do not read anything more into it.
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