hi everyone, i have problem , i mean one side love,i just need to know how girls think,

actually i have started loving a girl from 2 yrs, she is versatile i mean,studious as wel as fun loving girl,and has a very friendly attitude,i got introduced to her 1 yr bak purposefuly ,and starded chating with her on net and by sms,i used to give her a hint abt my love now and then by applauding her each time i saw her, but she ignored them,and one day bcoz of her frds she came to know by my msgs tht i love her,and bfore i propose to her she intentionaly or unintentionaly..i dono ,she blurted out tht she likes one of her clasmates..but not seriously,she made me guess tht person through her class photo,i was collapsed,not knowing wht to do, i proposed her next day,i told her wht all i have done to watch her and wen all this story started,she replied to this mail by saying tht (i.. never had any feelings for u but tht ur just like one of my friend..i wil b ur friend,.. this is not an order but a request..)
i even told her abt my family status, my studies and my ambitions all thtt stuff,after all this again after a gap of 2 months on her birth day i gifted her with an expensive gifts and she first refused but accepted them,..all,i even told tht i wil wait for her if not for 1 yr for 5 yr..she talks well replies to my msg, but the only problem is tht she never voluntarily says even hi...even for months also..tht realy puts me down,i am losing my self respect,i sometimes get dejected and try to forgrt her by deleting her number and so..but i cant.i realy love her very much,i dono if the age gap of 4yr is restricting her,if tht is then she would'nt b a friend too is'nt it.. tel me whts in her mind...i mean if i ...bfriend her this way can i win her love...

kaitou

She told you what's on her mind. She doesn't like you period. It's quite obvious isn't it?

Move on and find someone else to like , or you can keep liking her and hope she'll like you back one day