Where are you in the healing process?

madaman · Oct 26, 2007, 09:32 AM

I am just really curious, there are alot of regulars on here and ive read their stories over the last few months. Just wondering how everyone is doing.

Personally Im at almost 3 months since the breakup. First month and a half was absolute hell, but its gotten way better. Went 55 days NC before she called me this week to ask something stupid. I thought I would be back to day 1 but an hour after talking to her I was fine again thank goodness. I still think about her WAY too much, but I have gone hours without the thought of her crossing my mind. I have focused more on work again, and am eating/sleeping properly again. Outlook is neutral (at least its not super negative). I have been seeing someone new casually but its really tough because of the whole 'my ex did this better etc' hopefully that goes away soon.

So how is everyone else doing? I feel some weird bond with all of you going through this CRAP at the same time as I.

madaman · Jan 23, 2008, 08:15 AM

Well another month (and some more) has gone by, just checking in with everyone. With christmas and new years (and my bday) over it was quite the relief. It was tough but Ive had worse. Ive actually gone a full day+ without thinking about her, which wouldnt have seemed possible before. I still miss her, but moreso the life that I had with her, and not so much the person. Im going to be a pro at this by the time Ive finally found the right girl!

How is everyone else doing/coping?

ISneezeFunny · Jan 23, 2008, 10:03 AM

a little over a month. I actually haven't kept track of the days...just going through it day by day.

I have had absolutely no contact from her side either...which has its own benefits/downfalls.

Valentine's is coming up...so that should be interesting...as well as my birthday. This should be even more interesting...

Delow84 · Jan 23, 2008, 10:34 AM

3 months 8 days lol. At least i am not crying anymore. I don't check her myspace or facebook anymore. I don't check my email as much hoping for an email from her. I dont worry that ill see her while im driving (which is very possible daily) I still think about her everyday, but at least im not getting horrible depressed when I do.

Id hope in another 3 months or so I will be doing really good.
I am not afraid anymore

Romefalls19 · Jan 23, 2008, 10:41 AM

It's been a little over a month for me. I haven't checked her myspace since before new years, don't wait for her e-mails or calls or anything. I'm not expecting anything from her, I'm just doing what I want to for now and slowly getting better



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