When to start

jrk556 · #1 Jan 3, 2007, 04:31 PM

I just started dating my gf about a week ago. WE are already hlding hans and her heads always on myshoulder. is it to earley to kiss her? I dont wanna ask her

s2tp · Jan 3, 2007, 04:43 PM

jrk556,

well I am guessing by your grammar and obvious tension in kissing a girl...you are in Jr High?
If you just started dating a week ago, you should take things slow. Enjoy holding hands and whatnot until the timing is right. You dont want to get awkward trying to anticipate the kiss. Will this be your first kiss? Is this hers? Does she seem like she wants you to kiss her? Does she look at you for a moment then look away being shy? that is a good signal that she is kissing about you too. There is no need to rush though. Your relationship is still new. Enjoy the newness and let it linger. When the time is right the kiss will come more naturally.

jrk556 · Jan 3, 2007, 05:11 PM

im in 9th grade.. im not eager when the time comes but... i like her alot and do not want to lose her...she said things are moving good so i dont have a clue wat that means

s_cianci · Jan 3, 2007, 05:14 PM

If she's already comfortable enough for holding hands and head on the shoulder, then probably not.

jrk556 · Jan 3, 2007, 05:15 PM

it will be my first kiss but not hers...idk shes always uting her face into my shoulder... so idk.

jrk556 · Jan 3, 2007, 05:17 PM

so i should wait longer?

s2tp · Jan 3, 2007, 05:33 PM

yeah, i think your safer to wait than to rush... if she has already kissed before, maybe she will give you a sign she is ready to kiss. She may even make a move on you.

You can wait another week or so...like I said...dont rush it

manimuth · Jan 3, 2007, 05:35 PM

Next time she puts her head on your shoulder, just nonchalantly give her a kiss on her forehead or on her cheek or on top of her head...wherever your lips are the closest to. This may be a good way to test the waters a bit. Play it cool and see how she handles it. This kiss could break the ice and tension a bit. If she snuggles closer or looks up at you, and you feel ready, slowly go in for the lips. If she stays on your shoulder but hasn't moved, play it cool and wait for her to feel comfortable. If this was the wrong move, you will feel her pull away and that is cool too because now you know she is not ready for the kiss but you haven't kissed her anywhere serious enough for her to get angry or offended.

jrk556 · Jan 3, 2007, 06:08 PM

Thanks for the help guys/ladies! We r going to a movie on friday is that a good place to test it?

s2tp · Jan 3, 2007, 07:21 PM



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