When does he realize that I was the best GF possible? I put up with all of his moods, and did everything for him, (everything....) with very little reciprocation. Why does he think he is "better off without me?" Why does he say he wants to see if he can be happier with someone else and needs time to see if he "misses me"?? Does he ever realize?? And if/when he does, will I be strong enough to do the right thing, whatever that is, because at this point, I don't know what I would do.
Maybe he is better off without you. Maybe you think and over analyze too many things instead of enjoying the moment while it was there. Now that moment is over and he feels that he is better off with out you.
There is no going back. The decisions were made. It is now your time to realize it is over and that as the above post mention. Does it really matter now. Truly it does not.
Simple, he's done with you and so should you. Why do you want someone who doesn't want you to be a part of his life...too bad his loss!!! These are deal breakers who keep hoping they would get someone better and end up as such jerks that I am glad you are better off without him...Girl, be confident of yourself....u have your dignity and u deserve every inch of it. heads up!!
From personal knowledge, he'll claim to have "realized" the second he finds out that you're with someone else. His first moments alone after hearing the news--he'll be right on the phone trying to mess things up for you---DON"T LET HIM!! He hasn't changed--he's trying to feed his own ego by knowing you'll run right back to him--but he DOES NOT want you yet. I'd say after a couple of months--let him see you dressed up and looking very happy a couple of times-but don't give in for at least a month. Hopefully, the power of suggestion sets in and you're not just acting like you're happy, but you really are. I'm rooting for you hang in there--it gets easier-believe me, I know. To hell with him
You put up with all his moods... you did everything....
Dry your tears and move on.
Find distraction, go out with girlfriends, do what makes you happier at this moment.
And at some point you will get over it....
But for now ask yourself.... "You put up with all his moods... you did everything....(everything) ... with little reciprocation..."
Does that sound very healthy to you ?
From what I read you are much better off without this person.
Oh my god you sound like me. When the do they realize? I don't think they care, it's like their not concerned with realizing or not because they are over it. I don't know what your situation is, but my ex told me he wanted at "break" and then he made it a break up two weeks later. I know I was the best possible gf for him, but the truth is, He didn't want the best, he wanted something lesser, something to make him feel more competent as a man. So maybe you ARE The best for him, but is he really the best for you? If he needs to think about whether he misses you or not (which my ty ex did) hes def. not the best, because whoever is the best doesn't put you through so much pain that you have to blog it online. I hate this guy your sweating over, he seems like my ex. CHUMPS. move on, im trying to. It sucks, but try not to go back to him, remember all the pain. I know in my heart, I would DIE if I had to go through this whole ordeal again, one times enough, thank you .
when he is in need thats when !he is a selfish bastard just like my x did everything for him for 8 years.
DO NOT go back. what goes around comes around listen to that song I will survive over and over check out the lyrics just punch it into google. why does he say he wants to see you? to KEEP YOU hanging on AND for a safety net in case his plans dont work out. you go back you will be his doormat. he wants that control respect urself do not ever do that. do not cave in.
Maybe he is better off without you. Maybe you think and over analyze too many things instead of enjoying the moment while it was there. Now that moment is over and he feels that he is better off with out you.
There is no going back. The decisions were made. It is now your time to realize it is over and that as the above post mention. Does it really matter now. Truly it does not.
Joe
the sad thing is people come here ask for help then the person comes back and we took our time to help and for nothing they dismiss us once they get what they want if this is the case here she deserves him.
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