hi, I am 18 years old and me and my bf have been together for a little over four months. we live together and we are very happy. He hasnt said i love you yet, i was just wondering if i should say it, or when i should say it...i really like him n i want to say it...im just not too sure how to...n i dont want to scare him off....

please help

danni07

Thats Your Opinion it has worked before! no ones relationship is the same, so its hard 2 comment on! But i have been in this persons situation so i can relate to them.

jeewee

I would never live with someone if they did not say they loved me. That is the minimum commitment they should give.

shellbell2228

You always let the guy say it first, no matter how long it's been or how old you are. Trust me.

ISneezeFunny

that's a load of bullhonky. why can't the girl say it first? because she might get "stuck" or give the guy the "upper hand"?

it's the same situation for guys. Whoever feels it should say it...regardless of gender.

N0help4u

Moving in with him but afraid to move too fast....
I think you already MADE the big fast move!

I dunno but when I am all into a guy he better be okay with all the I Love you's I have to say or he shouldn't be there with me in the first place.

BUT many guys never or rarely say I love you so don't look forward to that.

starbuck8

That's how so many bad relationships that end badly start out. You put the cart before the horse. It's best to know where both people stand before moving in. I agree...wrong way around! Back up!