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Old Jul 12, 2007, 03:31 PM
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whats wrong with me?

to make a long story short......... i broke up with the guy i was going out with for 10 months to go out with someone else but that didnt work out =[ so my ex got a new girlfriend and its not that im jealous or anything bcuz i look a 100 times better than she does [im prettier, i got a nicer body.......] im not being conceited, its just the truth!! well i dnt know why it bothers me soo much that they go out!! im over him and i know that i shouldnt care bcuz im the 1 that let him go but i cant stop thinkin about them two even though im talkin to and i like sum1 else.. its like i dont want him but i dnt want no 1 else to have him!! its not that im selfish, i just dnt know what it is!! i dnt know maybe its bcuz i dnt like this other girl bcuz she is pretending to be something that she's not but im being honest that I AM over him and if i had a choice i would NOT take him back [just to prove my point, he always says that he misses me and wants me back but i tell him no bcuz i dnt want to (which is the truth!!)] but what do you think it is??

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Old Jul 13, 2007, 05:28 AM   #11  
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You really have some ego issues you need to deal with. Perhaps going to a therapist will help you. You tell us that it didnt work out with the other guy and when I bring it up, your "ego" gets bruised and you have to say something like "as for the guy that i broke up with him for... well i didnt loose him because he just texted me earlier... SO IN UR FACE!!
". You dont even know me yet your ego gets hurt by a stranger bringing up the fact that it didnt work with the other guy. You should seek counseling. You were obviously smart enough to get out of the abusive relationship with your ex, now dont worry about what hes doing or who hes with.

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well i didnt loose him because he just texted me earlier... SO IN UR FACE!!
This doesn't sound like a just friendship, it sounds as though you will break them up, for your own selfish reasons and this can never be a healthy relationship as you hope, because you both are playing games with the feelings of others in a callous way. As your friend is using this female he is capable of using you too, no matter what he says, or you think, you should move on to more positive things in life that make you happy.
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Old Jul 13, 2007, 12:58 PM   #13  
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to make a long story short......... i broke up with the guy i was going out with for 10 months to go out with someone else but that didnt work out =[ so my ex got a new girlfriend and its not that im jealous or anything bcuz i look a 100 times better than she does [im prettier, i got a nicer body.......] im not being conceited, its just the truth!! well i dnt know why it bothers me soo much that they go out!! im over him and i know that i shouldnt care bcuz im the 1 that let him go but i cant stop thinkin about them two even though im talkin to and i like sum1 else.. its like i dont want him but i dnt want no 1 else to have him!! its not that im selfish, i just dnt know what it is!! i dnt know maybe its bcuz i dnt like this other girl bcuz she is pretending to be something that she's not but im being honest that I AM over him and if i had a choice i would NOT take him back [just to prove my point, he always says that he misses me and wants me back but i tell him no bcuz i dnt want to (which is the truth!!)] but what do you think it is??
Maybe he decided she was smarter, since you think you are better looking. This is most probably true considering your poor grammar, spelling, and punctuation.
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Old Jul 13, 2007, 01:01 PM   #14  
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You want to know what's wrong with you? Everything IF you don't let that guy go and stop worrying about him...Geeez you broke up with him, now who cares what he does...Obviously you HAVE NOT moved on...He shouldnt be on your mind...Obviously it seems like you made a mistake of dumping him...Ha! I love this!
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