Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Dating For 2 1/2 Years Now....just The Other Day We Got In This Huge Fight. It All Started When I Told Him That I Was Going To Go Out With My Girlfriends He Was Fine On The Day I Told Him But The Nexxt Day He Was Very Upset And Mad......we Have Promised Eachother Not To Go Out With One Another....but That Was When We First Started Dating...and Have Gone Out Without Eachother A Few Times.......he Thinks That It Is My Fault Because I Made A Promise And I Broke It....but So Did He.......he Packed Upa Few Clothes And Left And Now I Am Very Upet And Confused!!!!! I Used Make Him Not Leave Because He Was Tryin Not To Let Me Say 'okay I Wont Go Out Then' And Then He Would Get His Way Again....but That Day I Didnt I Stood My Ground And I Didnt Stop Him From Leaving......i Want To Go Out With My Friends Once In A While...i Hardly Even Do Go Out With Them Cuz I Am Always Scared That He Is Going To Get Mad And I Dont Like Fighting About So I Never Say Yes When My Friends Ask Me To Go Out.........now I Can Call Him And Try And Work Things Out, But Also......i Dont Know How To Say It.....i Want To Be Able To Trust Me And Let Me Go Out With My Girlfriends......tonight They Have Asked Me To Go Out.. And Thats Why This Whole Thing Started...so Should I Phone Him And Work Things Out And Not Go Out With My Friends......or Jus Leave It For One More Day And Go Out

launikalinda

first of all, you did absolutely NOTHIN wrong!! you have the right to go out once in a while!! if there aint no ring on ur finger then you shouldnt be on lock down! i dont know him or nothing but 4rm what ur saying, he sounds kinda insecure or controlling. if you really want him back in ur life u should tell him that u have a right to go out and have some time for yourself once in a while and that there is nothing for him to worry about but yea u should still go out with your friends and maybe you should just wait for him to come back to you if he really thinks the relationship is worth trying for!! good luck and dont change ur ways just to make someone else happy!! its ur lyfe and u only get to live it once!!