What would you make of this ?

onlineguy · #1 Jan 9, 2007, 05:22 AM

Please see my previous threads. Got ex talking again, but lost her, Got annoyed and blocked her details on msn.

She text and asks if on msn. I unblock. Half an hour later she is online, so I messenger her and she says I am not staying, corrects my grammer over something and then says bi ??????

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rol · Jan 9, 2007, 05:28 AM

maybe she is pmsing ;-)

what did you message her exactly?

i think shes playing hard to get ...wonder why she just cannot tell you what she wants instead of all this childishness.

Get firm with her now.

onlineguy · Jan 9, 2007, 05:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rol

maybe she is pmsing ;-)

what did you message her exactly?

i think shes playing hard to get ...wonder why she just cannot tell you what she wants instead of all this childishness.

Get firm with her now.

I simple asked her if she was any good with sorting out pc's as I have loads of viruses infecting my computer and having a bar be que..lol

She said she was not staying, correct a mistake I made in this sentence and said bye ! signed out of msn.

What is that about ? she knows how I feel !

rol · Jan 9, 2007, 05:43 AM

oh just leave her to it for now and dont message her anything else.

rol · Jan 9, 2007, 05:45 AM

i believe she is using the old "treat them mean , keep them keen" which unfortunately is working very well with you.........

onlineguy · Jan 9, 2007, 06:20 AM

How on earth do I prevent this girl from playing games !

I just cant believe that she is happy with the way the relationship has gone ! How could I have been so wrong, or so misled.

This whols situation is messed up ! Surly you try to solve problems, not create more.

Sorry to rant, very very confused by all of this !!!!

rol · Jan 9, 2007, 06:27 AM

<<How on earth do I prevent this girl from playing games ! >>

Quite simply, Do not engage in games with her.

Tell her you do not like game playing and want a real relationship and that when she is ready to do that to contact you and if not then goodbye.

wap · Jan 9, 2007, 06:31 AM

I would leave her be, she obviously likes messing you about. Ex's behave in a strange way. I think they like the control part. I wouldn't give her the satisfaction. (Wish I could take my own advice these days!)

onlineguy · Jan 9, 2007, 06:36 AM

This sucks, but I have no choice but to walk away ! She is continuesly backing me into this corner, She is either avoiding discussing issues, ignoring me or playing games !

Yet it was her who pushed for the relationship ! her who pushed to get close together ! Everthing thing about this whole mess could of been avioded. All she had to do was be straight with me form the start.

If it was a casual thing then I would not of looked at it as a relationship and would not of gotten attached ! I got attached and it appears she did not !

Cant even get her to talk about things.... I am in complete limbo - with the only choice is to walk away, unless that is what she is wanting by this ! but why enter and push for a close relationship ! I wonder if she thinks I am not the person she thought I was.

Sorry there thinking aload, just very confused.....



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