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Yes I know that it is a while untill the 9nth of june but still I would like to get her something really great!
Yes I know she isnt my girlfiend and I should just move on....but I still love her and she is moving to a town VERY close to the one I moved to when we broke up.
So here is the thing...
I want to get back with her and I am palning to spend some time with her this summer to you know...let us both fell how we really feel for eachother and the see what happens.
So for her graduation from highschool (wich is a very big deal for her) I want to get her something special.
But since I aint her boy friend (she is single by the way) I dont want my gift to say "I LOVE YOU! LETS START OVER!" And still nothing boring or stupid like a book.
So what do you guys and girls think?
Do you have any great gifts that you know have worked or just are great gifts...
She loves tourism and foreign languages!
Specially france, spain and italy...
She also loves to hang with her friands and also very much with her family.
I am basically speekin on my own experience. I am only 38 an havent reached the record setting number of ex's quite like my mom. I am still young an wont stop trying. Altho if my ex suddenly sent me a gift it would be very creepy feeling. In developing the well known status of EX involved a basically simple conversation. We are done. Regardless of whos idea it was, the fact is the relationship is clearly unwanted by one or more persons in the relationship. Having that wealth of knowledge,why would I go back to a situation where I was unwanted, risk my valuable time an heart ache on a clearly stated decision made with this other person? Seems obvious to me now, but I can admit I have been in simular situations in life where my all knowing mind can manipulate insanity into logical reality basically in seconds. I am also the loud mouth that expresses how intelligent people are that " fall in love " with married people. Create a relationship with a proven cheater an expect things to be happy ever after makes me laugh a long time at the mind games we play on our selves. I truly had no intentions in my first answer to be viewed as malicious or hateful. It was simply put to me that very same way.The hopes I shared with a very close friend. They didnt upset me with any thing they said to me, because I just dont take words or opinions in a neg. manner. They gave the obvious truth of the situation I was in. How can ya be upset with that? I just needed to have the seed planted an come to terms with that silly one letter word, no matter how much I tried,I will always be that one letter word. Weeks later I happened across a 3 legged cat and named him Elizabeth. Havent dwelled on her since. Funny thing about the cat is, he doesnt know a bit of difference his name is a former girly I dated. Keeps me laughing.
I've got a few questions...
-How long have you two been broken up?
-Why did you two break up?
If the breakup was messy and it happened recently then I think you shoudl prbably give her a little space. Maybe a card or something but you don't want to look creepy. BUT, if the breakup was simply because of your move or something else to that nature and it wasn't just like within the last month... I think the magazine would be a great idea.
Yes she IS my ex and I know i have to give her space and I have!
It was half a year since we broke up.
And we broke up because I moved away from her.
We both still loved one and other.
We dotn speek reularly like everyday or anything but then again me and some of my best friends from home have spoken for several months so....its quite the same.
She has become my friend but there is deffinatley tension between us still....
Reason I want to get back togehter is that after summer she is alöso moving and is going to be stationed 20 minutes with train away from where I live. Plus we can spend the entire summer together....
DocWill...
Dont really undertand what you are saying :P
Not the best at english...
Ohh and one more thing....
I love this girl. I love her!!!! If I dont tell her how I fell and let her decide.... then ill juts wonder for the rest of my life what would ahve happend.
Wouldnt that be an even bigger pain?
Ye sof cource I ahve to give her space but then please answer when is the time to tell her how I feel!?
It's been a year and a half? If you do decide to get her a gift, don't spend too much money on it. It's been so long I think you have both changed and you annot expect to pick up where you left off... don't expect too much from her or you might be in for heartbreak. Good luck!
Whats this crap about when is the right time to tell her how i feel!!!!
IN ABOUT THREE YEARS WHEN SHE TELLS YOU SHE IS IN LOVE WITH YOU AND WANTS TO SPEND HER LIFE WITH YOU THATS WHEN YOU TEL HER YOU LOVE HER AND NOT A SECOND BEFOR WUSSY BOY!!!!!
mAYBE WHILE YOUR BENDING HER OVER THE KITCHEN TABLE IN ABOUT 6 MONTHS OR BANGING HER ONE NIGHT AFTER A BIG NIGHT ON THE PISS YOU CAN SAY UMM I LOVE YOU BABY DOESNT HAVE AS MUCH AFFECT SHE PROBLY WONT BELIEVE IT BUTSHE WILL LIKE IT!!!!!!
This girl is not keen on wusy boys like you who have to tell her how they feel. Who cares how you feel keep that o yoursaelf, you know you love her dont letherknow that .
WAT YOU DO NEED TO LET HER KNOW IS THAT YOUR A FUN GUY TO BE AROND MAKE HERLAUGH MAKE HER FEEL LIKE HER LIFE IS NOT AS GOOD WHEN YOU ARE NOT AROUND. THIS IS DONE BY NOT BEING AROUND ALL THE TIME SIMPLE.....WUSSY.
You seem likeyou want to hangwith her all the time welllet me give you a reality check WUSS BOY NOT WONDER BOY!!!! When you are in high school younormaly hang with the same peopleeach day what do you callthese people FRIENDS!!!!! Thats right so why do nt you hang with your girlfriend each day and you know what you become FRIENDS thats right FRIENDS.
WHAT HAPPENS IS SHE DOESNT MISS YOU SHE NEEDS TO FEEL LKE SHE NEEDS YOU AROUND THIS DOESNT MEAN YOU STAY AROUND. YOU HAE TO FIND OTHER THINGS YOU ENJOY DOING. MAYBE SPORT. IF NOT GO TO THE GYM 3 TIMES A WEEK AT NIGHT THIS MEANS 3 TIMES SHE WILL BE WAITING FOR YOU SE WILL WANT YOU MORE THIS IS GUARANTEED!!!!!GUARANTEEEED GETBUSY AND SEE HER 3 TIMES A WEEK THATS RIGHT 3 TIMES NOT 7 3!!!!!!! hAVRE ANOTHER INTEREST HAVE YOUEVER NOTICED GIRLS LIKE TO SAY I LOVE......WHOEVER BUT NEVER SEE HIM HIS SO BUSY!!! THATS RIGHT HIS GOT A LIFE THATS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO!!!!
dONT EVER SAY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH YOU ARE MY DREAM!!!!!tHATS A LOAD OF CRAP NO GIRL IS YOUR DREAM ONLY WUSSIES HAVE THERE DREAM GIRL AFTERA FEW MONTHS IT TAKES YEARS TO FEEL LIKE THAT!!!!1
GET BUSY INVOLVED IN OTHER THINGS YOU WONT EVENREALISE IT BUT SHE WILL BE MISSING YOU!!!!!!
if you want to buy her a gift , then do it. Buy her something you know that she likes. Not anything to expensive. She will know that you still care about her. Then it is up to her to to take the next step. In the mean time live your life...doing the things that make you happy. You can't make someone love you, either they do or they don't. Good Luck
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