If he's not married, letting him know you're interested in him is fine... but only when he's completely unattached. No cheaters.
Also, you don't court a guy through comments and observations of other people. Ignore them, even the good observations. They mean nothing.
If you made a mistake, wondering is pointless. Call him and ask for forgiveness, and do this regardless of whether you ever date him. If you wrong someone, you apologize, directly, not through anyone.
Or don't. Sounds like you really have no basis for thinking there is anything here and you could easily put these energies to work on another prospect.
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