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Hi! I met this person online on a dating site and talking and chatting with this person for a long 6 months time, decided to meet. Everything went fine and we got very close physically. but on my last day with him, he was more into his office work and talking to his friend.
As soon as I came back, It has been only a month, I received a mail from him stating that he is missing me and all. But after that things changed. He started going back to dating site and being online for long time. He was mostly irritated with me and started avoiding my calls. When I asked him, he told me he liked me but we need to see. Now he doesnot take my calls but keeps calling me and wants to know what I am doing and where I am. But thats hurting me now because I am not able to reach him. I tried talking to him day before yesterday but he said no point in getting emotionally involved. It hurts in end. he called me up today. whem I returned his call, he was so upset about not calling him back immediately. He has stopped replying to my messages on IM also.
I dont know what to expect from his behaviour. What shall I understand.
They tell us that when we "assume", we make an "" out of "u" and "me". How do you read anything into the actions of a flake? This guy sounds like someone to stay away from, at least to me.
beyond the married and those just cheating, you have men who just merely use it to score with different women and then move on to the next this is a very commom thing ( and some women who do the same) then he may have decided after being with you in person, that he just did not have anything that clicked but was being nice about trying to break up or have a hard time breaking up.
Either way, like some of the others this guy sounds like an undependable flake to me. It's not a real relationship from what it sounds like, but more of an e-relationship.
I think you should just stop talking to him. If that makes him mad, too bad. No need to tell him you're going to stop talking to him. Just do it.
I dont know what to expect from his behaviour. What shall I understand.
Understand that you have seen his true self and he may want fun and games but friendship and anything deeper is out of the question. If you can't be an easy hookup forget him.
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But this person calls me and talks to me all the time but when he wants to. he doesnot stop calling me and when i dont pick his calls, he is damn mad.
Thats why he keeps calling, to see if you have changed your mind, and are ready to do things his way.
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But would you be in touch with the person?
If I were you, I would be so happy that he has let me see that he is about nothing, I would reward his efforts with NO Contact whatsoever and block his calls and texts and delete his email, and disappear from his world. Let him wonder, whats up.
Just because a guy calls, doesn't mean he is interested in you as a person, he has his own agenda.
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