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cjnvgq · Jun 3, 2007, 12:02 AM

I really don't know this question because some women I think are not decent and kind-hearted, but guys like them.
So, do guys like those who looks sexy, or beautiful, despite the possibility that they might be not kind-hearted people?
I doubt there are different values or standards between women and men. At least, if I were a guy, I would love a gentle, good, and decent girl.

stargazer10 · Jun 3, 2007, 12:03 AM

I would really like to know this myself. It seems that guys go for the loud, obnoxious, controlling, mean girls rather than nice, ambitious, and intelligent ones.

rockerchick_682 · Jun 3, 2007, 01:01 AM

I think it depends on age, the younger ones are usually looking for some hot chick, even if she's a ^*$&$. I think when you find someone, the first thing you notice is their physical appearance; eyes, a$$ , hair, clothes, and when you get to know their personality that's when you start to really like them. I think guys like a girl who's attractive and takes care of herself, but I think confidence and personality is more important than anything

chuff · Jun 3, 2007, 07:09 AM

Above all else - Honesty.

Geoffersonairplane · Jun 3, 2007, 07:21 AM

Sincere women.

cjnvgq · Jun 3, 2007, 07:25 AM

Originally Posted by chuff

Above all else - Honesty.

But how many honest girls around us? Some of them are plain, obscure, or so common. Unfortunately not many of them are happy in relationship.
Honesty is easy to achieve. Even when a woman who is not loyal to his boyfriend, she could finally tell him all the past she did and then says to him, "I just want to be honest to u."
Honesty shouldn't be a measure to judge. I think kindness and decency are the most important.

chuff · Jun 3, 2007, 07:41 AM

Originally Posted by cjnvgq

But how many honest girls around us?

Not many.

Originally Posted by cjnvgq

Some of them are plain, obscure, or so common. Unfortunately not many of them are happy in relationship.

But if there not happy in a relationship that's there problem for putting up with it. And that comes from a guy that has put up with a lot that a normal person wouldn't. But that wasn't anybody else's fault but my own. But much like they are doing I justified it. Eventually, I got out of those relationships and that may be coming for the people you see or they may put up with it for life. I can't tell you the answer for each person, but I can tell you that if someone stays in an unhappy relationship, at some level it makes them happy because they feel secure, or important, or whatever else.

Originally Posted by cjnvgq

Honesty is easy to achieve. Even when a woman who is not loyal to his boyfriend, she could finally tell him all the past she did and then says to him, "I just want to be honest to u."

Sure, or she could be honest from the start and say "I'm the kind of person that is going to cheat on you if things don't go my way, or I just may cheat on you because I'm a slut." But they don't.

But in the scenrio you presented the break up would not occur because of her honesty, it would occur because she cheated.

Originally Posted by cjnvgq

Honesty shouldn't be a measure to judge. I think kindness and decency are the most important.

So your looking for someone who is kind and decent but not honest. I believe you are looking for a politician.

Fr_Chuck · Jun 3, 2007, 07:48 AM

Just as there are different women, there are different men, the men who are drunks, hang out at bars will be looking for girls that do that.

Men who like nascar ( well I would think are just out of luck) but I guess they want women who like that also.

The idea is to find the type of person you are.

honey2700 · Jun 3, 2007, 09:56 AM

All guys want is those s***s that act in pornos and rub on them at srtip clubs. But they settle for the nice girls because after a while they noticed it doesn't go any where with skanks but they always dream about them and wish there good girls would also be a slu*
Men are pigs and they won't change until all those dumb b****s and sloppy skanks stop being s***s and grow the f*** up.

stefani1 · Jun 3, 2007, 10:04 AM

Originally Posted by honey2700

All guys want is those s***s that act in pornos and rub on them at srtip clubs. But they settle for the nice girls because after a while they noticed it doesnt go any where with skanks but they always dream about them and wish there good girls would also be a slu*
Men are pigs and they wont change until all those dumb b****s and sloppy skanks stop being s***s and grow the f*** up.

That's pretty sunny!! Lol. And I have to agree maybe its true? Lol.

Geoffersonairplane · Jun 3, 2007, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by honey2700

All guys want is those s***s that act in pornos and rub on them at srtip clubs. But they settle for the nice girls because after a while they noticed it doesnt go any where with skanks but they always dream about them and wish there good girls would also be a slu*
Men are pigs and they wont change until all those dumb b****s and sloppy skanks stop being s***s and grow the f*** up.

Not all us men are pigs, I'm not a pig, I am a nice sincere guy who wants the same in a woman.

Don't judge all, there are a lot of bad eggs but there are good eggs, that goes for men and women.

chuff · Jun 3, 2007, 11:24 AM

Originally Posted by honey2700

All guys want is those s***s that act in pornos and rub on them at srtip clubs. But they settle for the nice girls because after a while they noticed it doesnt go any where with skanks but they always dream about them and wish there good girls would also be a slu*
Men are pigs and they wont change until all those dumb b****s and sloppy skanks stop being s***s and grow the f*** up.

Hmm, I wonder if it's really the guy in your situation. Granted you seem kind and well adjusted but something tells me you guy problems may not be the fault of the guy. Just going out on a limb here not sure what could possibly make me think this way. :rolleyes:

talaniman · Jun 3, 2007, 03:54 PM

I'll take honest, sincere, and sense of humor any day. Darn I married my wife cause she is drop dead gorgeous, good thing she was honest, sincere, and had a sense of humor.

leilaa111 · Jun 3, 2007, 05:53 PM

Originally Posted by cjnvgq

I really don't know this question because some women I think are not decent and kind-hearted, but guys like them.
So, do guys like those who looks sexy, or beautiful, despite the possibility that they might be not kind-hearted people?
I doubt there are different values or standards between women and men. At least, if I were a guy, I would love a gentle, good, and decent girl.

Guys like a decent honest loving caring person despite what she looks like I no a lot of girls sorry 2 say that are ugly but with the most geourges guys why cause their good people some guuys go 4 looks but it doesn't last that long so I would stick 2 being honest loving caring and evenually the right guy will come along

honey2700 · Jun 3, 2007, 06:39 PM

Originally Posted by chuff

Are you a turned on as I am. Oh baby shake that a$$!

I hope you are because I'm ready to rock your world

honey2700 · Jun 3, 2007, 06:41 PM

Originally Posted by chuff

Are you a turned on as I am. Oh baby shake that a$$!

Oh but wait if you isn't got no money take your broke a$$ home!

chuff · Jun 3, 2007, 07:08 PM

Originally Posted by honey2700

I hope you are because im ready to rock your world

Oh yeah the Chuffster is getting some honey tonight!

chuff · Jun 3, 2007, 07:08 PM

Originally Posted by honey2700

Oh but wait if you aint got no money take your broke a$$ home!

Wait you only do it for money? I'm not that kind of guy.

Geoffersonairplane · Jun 4, 2007, 10:02 AM

:confused:

Pass me a cappuccino please.

talaniman · Jun 4, 2007, 10:18 AM

Originally Posted by Geoffersonairplane

:confused:

Pass me a cappuccino please.

Careful the threesome thread is next door.