Would like everyone's thoughts? Not respond....or answer but seem busy and distant or call back a few days later or not at all

We are long distance anyways so when I am in town I don't want to feel like I have to see her because I don't but we broke up over the phone..so at some point

Any thoughts?

Absence does make the heart grow fonder but I feel like she misses me and that is great to know because it knows I can still do my thing out here and she won't forget about me.

Sentra

Trying to keep her around in the event that you may want her in the future isn't a good idea, its the same thing as keeping her hopes up, and both are wrong. You may, along with her, could end up getting hurt in the process and not be friends at all. You can't control how she feels about you, but if want to, keep in touch with her as long as you don't have cruel intentions to keep her around in case you change your mind. Hindsight is 20/20, if you don't want her now, you never might.

Nohitter410

Very true, but it is more like I don't want to disappear from her life. She was the best thing that happened to me. It was all TIMING not compatibility. We started out basically in an LDR and those never work. So you are all right making good points.

Enough is enough. INstead of going and having fun and then keep on stressing over her. I need to think about myself and not about how it will affect her. I need to be honest with her and say even little calls don't help. I feel good about where I am at right now let's try to both give each other more space and time. Even though she may be hurt again by it, I think it is the best thing.

Krs

LDR are more hard work than normal relationships, i speak from experience. But they are very rewarding and satisfying if you keep your word, both ways

Sentra

Thats good of you then, be selfless, hopefully she (as well as you) will find someone to be with.