i was down with my girlfriend and my bestfriend( basically my sister) and i havent seen the sister in 3 months and my girlfriend INSISTED we hang out. so yeah we did.. i made out with my girlfriend for awhile then she went to watch a movie (whichi totally hated) and just ditched me and the sister. so we hung out for like an hour or so and yeah were pretty touchy so id always run up and hug her n stuff but i would never make my girlfriend feel unwanted..so id go over kiss her, arm around her. after awhle we went out and she started ignoring me..wouldnt even hold my hand. one of my friends that was there talked to her and said i was too close with the sister..which really pissed me off because shes the one who kept insisting we do. anyway all of them ditched me and she wouldnt kiss me goodbye..so i sat and cryed for about 15 minutes..then i told myself im not leaving without a goodbye..so i biked down to where she was and got my kiss..she was pretty cool after that but im still furious how she made a big deal outta nothing and made ME look like the bad guy. the sister has a boyfriend who actually happens to be my bestfriend so there would OBVIOUSLY be nothuing happening and she should know that...im just so confused and mad and she thinks its ok..is it actually my fault?

Fr_Chuck

If this is your friend and not really a real life sister, your girlfriend is letting you know that being close to another girl is not going to cut it in her world. And being touchy with another girl in front of your girl friend is a sure way not to have a girl frined, So I guess the real question is what the ..... with you, you should know better, or at least have learned it this time

X-Z3R0

i do know better and i understand exactly what your saying. but how can she insist this and then totally go back on me. she does this to me all the time...she'll insist something and then totally go back on it and throw blame on me..i hate it..i know what i did was partially wrong but i had NO intentions and she da** well knows that..but i didnt ignore my girlfriend..

xxsamxx110

well i know the situation. i might be wrong but maybe she was saying it because she knows you are friends and doesnt want you to think she is stopping you being friends or seeing what you would do. im in similar situation. my boyfriend is mates with a lass and in my eyes she is now getting in the way and is making me feel bad and doubt the relationship i have with my boyfriend. not tht he sees it. abit different i know. anyway have you tried talking to her and finding out why. id hate it if my boyfriend was too close and esspecially if 'touchy' with another lass even if she had a boyfriend. its likely that watching you with your mate might be hurting her, making her jealous or doubt that you love her or all of them. try talking to her and back off ur mate. hope i was of help.

X-Z3R0

well last night we talked and i apologized and everything and i thought she was over it..now i havent done ANYTHING to dayi just got off work an hour ago..and now shes sad and she kinda wont talk to me..she will but shes depressed about stuff and she wont tell me...i dont know now..

sarah1989

I Think Shes Just Jelouse Of This Other Girl.
I Know I Get Jelouse If My Guy Has Girls As Friends But Ya Gotta Get Over It

X-Z3R0

i guess your right. she wont tell me why she was/is sad. im on the phone with her right now..but she seems better were just laughing it up about my fight in the park..but knowing her shell text me again in the middle of the night..denying me sleep..and tell me why.. =) thanks for the posts guys..

xxsamxx110

well it must be getting to her, im like her in the way that i dont really tell people why i feel the way i do or whats on my mind. give her time and be there for her. open up to her and tell her what you are thinking and feeling that generally makes me talk and sort things out. you dont have to reply in the night, tell her you was asleep and only realised in the morning. she shouldnt be stopping you sleep.

liddlebabygrl123

shes jealous that your giving the any girl attention. the reason she wanted to hang out w/ her is obvious to me cause ive done that before she just wanted to see what ur bestfriend was like when she saw she was cool person, she got jealous.simple as that.and shes gonna deny it too.

these are he signs of saying i dont want you with her. and try not treating the bestfrined so special anymore dont ditch her though because of your girlfriends insecure jealous ways just wen u hang out make sure its around a group or at least another person so she cant say anything about u guys hanging out and keep them away from each other unless it nessecary.

X-Z3R0

shes still pissed or mad after 2 days.. i called her before i went to sleep and she said it was all fine..she txted me this at lke 1:30AM

"I know your probably sleeping so sorry im waking you but im trying really hard not to be mad at you or sad. so dont be mad at me..im really trying"

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