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What is he up to?
Asked Dec 2, 2009, 07:46 AM
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37 Answers Hey guys I was in a club with 3 other girls one night and a guy came up to me to tell me that he has been observing me for a while and he thinks I have a nice smile. Next he offered drinks, I kindly declined He walked away.... Next he came back again to chat up. And he asked if I wanted to dance, I said its ok I am pretty comfortable here so probably not. He said for my number, I gave him a wrong one because I wasn't too keen to see any random guy I meet at the club. After I gave my no. I left the club and was walking toward the car park. To my surprise, he immediately texts the wrong no. I gave him and the person replied him saying he got the wrong person. He left the club and came after me. I got a shock and he kind of confronted me, I was alone and so I figured ok fine, I will give him my number. Since then we exchange text messages via our mobile every day for about 1.5 weeks. Through our conversations he seems interesting but still I didn't think I should go out with him as he's like a complete stranger . However I changed my mind after reading a text message he sent me at 2 AM. " hey I know we met in the least ideal situation, and you should think poorly of me, but I just want to tell you that meeting you has been a huge moment for me, and I was really glad I mustered up the courage to speak to you that day. Still I respect that you want to keep distant, but I don't want you to think that you are losing out on anything. If you ever feel this way again just tell me and I ll back off. Just thought you should know I cherish our friendship. Night" I was kind of touched by his text and so I have agreed to meet up with him this weekend. But I told him I ll be bring a girlfriend along and he should bring another friend too. However two days ago he completely stopped texting me.....why is that so? I am little curious about it. Because sometimes I don't reply him but he still texts me . I am kind of excited about this weekend's meet up...but I don't know if he will inform me about the plans. I don't want to take the initiative to text him. Do guys text you very intensively and then completed stop to test your reaction? |
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| I was chatting with the guy that I like but just before I logged off I told him this Me: hey lets hang out sometime when you are back. Logging off take care! ( He is currently out of town for work but he returns every weekend . I didn't wait of his reply and I logged out of gchat when I got home and I checked my email I saw his reply) X: yes do.... X: when? Its been over a day ...I don't know how to reply him! He heh but I am sooooooo happy =D | ||||
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| Suggest something for when he's next in town. Have you told the overseas guy yet that it's not on? | ||||
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| No I haven't told why that we aren't on. I don't really know how to say it. I mean I don't call him the most is we talk online and stuff | ||||
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| Somehow you should let him know-its not fair keeping him waiting around. | ||||
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| Unless your one of those people who don't mind putting some one on the back burner while you see if this new guy works out? That's devious, and deceptive, in my opinion. | ||||
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| Hi guys I am back because I once again I don't know what is this guy(guy I met at the club) up to. About 2 weeks ago we went on a double date. I brought my friend and he brought another of his friend along too. So my birthday was on the 23rd Dec. About 1 week before the 23rd he texted me this 18th DEC Z: hey so you are celebrating your birthday with me right? Me: says who? Z: says me. Ha ha you ve got plans already? Me: Yes I have got plans already but it is a wednesday and you will be in camp =) ( this guy is with the military so he has to stay in the camp during the weekdays) Z:I ll take the day off for you. Me: Hey but I really can't I already have plans. Z: so when is the next best date? Me: I think 26th is good for me. So what is the plans? (He didn't text me back to confirm the date. I told him 26th is because I barely know him and I don't want to spend my birthday with a friend I barely know. 24th and 25th are too important dates to spend with him too ha ha ha so I chose 26th ) 22 DEC (day before my birthday) Z: 12 hours more =) Me: are you doing a count down ? How have you been? ( ok honestly I think his text message is quite freaky and stalkerish) Z:I have been busy. Yes counting down for you. I already decided what your gift should be... ME! Ha ha ha Me: Oh do you think I ll like it? Z: ha ha too bad. You don't have much choice here. Me: Oh I can't accept such a big gift Z: Are you saying I am fat? I am very sensitive about weight you know. Me: Since when your so self conscious Z: Since forever. So are you really not available tomorrow? Me:Yes I can't. Meeting some friends for dinner and drinks 23rd DEC Z at 12.30am: Happy birthday! I am so happy for you! Me: Hey Z! Thanks 24th DEC Z: hey how was the birthday celebrating! Me: Hey! It was good. Thanks 25th DEC Z: Hey Merry Xmas. Are we still meeting tomorrow? Me: Hey merry xmas. Yes! But I have something on in the afternoon, I can only see you in the evening. Z: yeah sure, but I am down with the flu I think, so may not be able to meet. I'm hoping I can get better, if not we meet another time yeah? Me: Hey no worries, I think you should get more rest =) sucks to be sick on xmas! Will catch you again! Z: hmmmm so sad can't meet you. OK i'll get well then ask you out again. Take care babe I didn't bother to reply him....to be honest I am quite disappointed that he cancelled on me. Is he playing mind games with me? I ll call it quits and not bother meeting up with him again if he is trying to play me. I just have no time for games. Its like he kept asking me out on the second date...then when the date is nearing he cancels on me. What is he up to? What do you guys think? | ||||
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| I think he's very strange and you're better off going nc on him. You don't need a stalker in your life. | ||||
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| His actions don't match his words, and that's always a red flag. Another red flag, he has excuses when he can't do what he says, or simply disappears, rather than do anything. | ||||
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