hooking up

mommyof2boys08 · #1 Apr 28, 2008, 12:09 PM

Well Im not usually the type to turn to the internet for answers but im at a loss and dont know what to do any more and would rather take some advice from others that really dont know me and cant judge me! I have been married 2 years and were together 7 well he cheated on me when I was 9 months pregnant and then ended up finding him on dating sights and such..I was soo hurt..well I ended up meeting this really osem guy not some one I would usually go for because hes a little older then me I am 23 he is 36...He looks GREAT!! well from the start he told me he was not looking for any kind of relationship he is in the middle of a divorce and I am an emotional wreck to be in any kinda anything serious when Im still kinda with my husband well any hoo we have been hooking up the past 3 months i see him about 3 times a week and everyday at work..No one knows about our secret! :P But I am starting to like him alot more then planned..Hes great and we do more then just hook up we go out we watch movies and we talk! Its great but he told me his intentions before I dont want to get hurt....How can I tell if hes really likes me or should i just keep it fun?! thanks a bunch!

N0help4u · Apr 28, 2008, 02:06 PM

If your husband is still cheating on you then he isn't worth being with. This other guy claims he is in the middle of a divorce and doesn't want to get involved again. I think you need to get away from both guys. Being with the other guy you very well could end up head over heels for him and hurt that he sticks with not wanting much more than a movie partner.

Synnen · Apr 28, 2008, 02:22 PM

um....if you're not divorced yet, YOU are cheating on your husband.

So...your husband is cheating on you, you're cheating on him with a married man who is cheating on his wife.

Sounds REALLY healthy to me.

Can I have your baby? Seems like the poor kid is going to have NO idea what family identity is, because you have no clue what YOUR family is.

How about this: Stop cheating on your husband, get your head together, stop seeing married men, and put you and your baby ahead of being with a man.



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